Been trying for a year and feeling like giving up. Just found out my sister in law is pregnant with her 2nd unplanned pregnancy. Don't know how to react to this. I'm happy for her but at the same time I'm sad. My husband and I are gonna be celebrating our 3 year anniversary next month and to be pregnant would be the greatest gift for both of us. This is what we really want and it's something that we feel like we are never gonna get. I want to give up but not sure how my husband feels. Can anyone please help me out? I'm just not the same anymore. I'm getting depressed and I have been crying all the time. It's just getting harder and harder on me everyday.