I was there the day my cat was born unbreathing & my OH rolled him to start him breathing, he instantly attached to both of us & used to crawl out of his box with his siblings and climb into bed with OH & I. We've had him 10 years and he's always been my baby, he slept with me every night & lays on my knees when they are sore. I had my baby 10 days ago & since then my cat (Shrek) doesn't want much to do with me. He doesn't hurt me or LO he just ignores us both, he sleeps in another room. The other night my brother was visiting & Shrek got out (he's 100% an indoor cat) and he ended up being locked outside all night & I was too busy to notice, he didn't come in until 7am. I love my cat but I feel guilty that I don't have enough time for him anymore I'm probably just being hormonal. I don't worry about him with my daughter because he's a gentle cat. I just worry he's not feeling loved enough.