Is it normal to feel guilty when having a second child? My son will be 3 in October and I just found out yesterday that I'm expecting another. I was hoping to wait until my son was at least 5 to have another. This one was a bit of a surprise. Had an accident a few weeks ago, even took the day after pill, and I still ended up pregnant. I'm just afraid I won't be able to give my son the same attention I was before once this one is born. I feel bad because he won't be the only baby anymore. Has anyone else felt this way? Did the feeling go away after a while?