The way he's acting about finishing inside of you would pee me off if he doesn't want a baby he needs to be more responsible ...that would be what would annoy me more you can't happy to get your kicks n Finish but be unhappy with the fact that the actions could lead to potential pregnancy ..,what the hay hay?! I know people's minds change a lot hell 3 years ago my OH n I never wanted to get married, we wanted like 6 kids but we've decided on 2-4 depending on life it's not set in stone, so even though you spoke about it years ago things can change ...to be honest if he's done then I dunno what you can do , you can talk and talk but it might be that for peace sakes he gives in...for u, I dont think I'd be happy if my OH just had kids due to my influence. he is feeling forced to the point he's discussing it with your joint mates , your beginning to resent him and god knows how he's feeling ...i dunno what to suggest , maybe having a proper talk without emotion just listening to each other if the answers the same id put it to bed for now