Feeling less positive than I was..

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After reading several posts about how people's bodies are after they stop the pill, I'm feeling less and less positive about this month...I have so many symptoms and can relate to posts when people talk about sore bbs/nipples or increased CM or anything like that but I've seen that a lot of people get all of this and more when they have just come off the pill. I've been off it 4 weeks Sunday. AF should be due around weekend/start of next week. I'm scared now and feel awful :( :(

I really thought this was our month, and now I'm not so sure.. :(

xxx
 
keep your head up. I was on the pill and got pregnant so there is always a possibility. are you using an OPK or monitoring your BBT?

:dust:
 
My first daughter was concieved the first month after coming off BC pill!
 
No not doing any of that to be honest, we're NTNP, and just letting nature take its course. I have heard people saying they got caught after stopping the pill quickly but I'm not so sure with me :( I was on Loestrin 20, and I don't know who else has been on that pill, so I don't have anyone else's experiences with it :(
Nevermind, thank you for replying, just in one of those moods :(

xx
 
microgynon . . . Doctor told me i couldn't get pregnant until i'd had a withdrawal bleed but i never got one . . . was super busy and not counting dates etc (ah those were the days ) and when i finally got a :bfp: and they sent me for a 4 week dating scan to be told i was 12 weeks pregnant . . . i thought i had flu :lol:
 
I know this is one of the hardest things I have ever been through. It can be really draining emotionally. Last month I drove myself crazy having every symptom in the book and really thought this was it. But it wasn't. It is crazy how we want something so bad and can actually make our bodies feel the things we want to feel. This month I am approaching it a little different. We just have to think positive and it will happen, maybe it will happen when we least expect it. But the key is to stay positive and try to not let this consume you. Because when you do that the days seem to drag on. Good luck to you!
 
microgynon . . . Doctor told me i couldn't get pregnant until i'd had a withdrawal bleed but i never got one . . . was super busy and not counting dates etc (ah those were the days ) and when i finally got a :bfp: and they sent me for a 4 week dating scan to be told i was 12 weeks pregnant . . . i thought i had flu :lol:

I was on Microgyon when I was about 16 but I had to change because it was just making AF very heavy and painful. Loestrin 20 Ive been on ever since, its made my AF about 2/3 days long and not heavy at all and no cramps. Heaven lol. But we decided that we wanted to NTNP so I finished my last pill on 13/3 had my withdrawal bleed on 16/3-18/3 - didn't bleed a lot and was quite light, which made me think perhaps it happened last month, as i missed about 3 pills in a row (not intentional though) but I took a test about a week ago, BFN. Me and OH had bd for about a week straight around the time I was supposed to ovulated...so I was feeling positive, but then after reading loads of post saying that people had all these symptoms when they had just come off the pill it made me think perhaps its in my head or something. Even OH has said that he can see spider veins on my bbs, and he knows that my bbs/nipples have been so sore lately.
I know it's not over til AF shows, but now I'm worried she will.

Wow 12 weeks?! That's amazing, and you had no idea?! xxxx
 
microgynon . . . Doctor told me i couldn't get pregnant until i'd had a withdrawal bleed but i never got one . . . was super busy and not counting dates etc (ah those were the days ) and when i finally got a :bfp: and they sent me for a 4 week dating scan to be told i was 12 weeks pregnant . . . i thought i had flu :lol:

I was on Microgyon when I was about 16 but I had to change because it was just making AF very heavy and painful. Loestrin 20 Ive been on ever since, its made my AF about 2/3 days long and not heavy at all and no cramps. Heaven lol. But we decided that we wanted to NTNP so I finished my last pill on 13/3 had my withdrawal bleed on 16/3-18/3 - didn't bleed a lot and was quite light, which made me think perhaps it happened last month, as i missed about 3 pills in a row (not intentional though) but I took a test about a week ago, BFN. Me and OH had bd for about a week straight around the time I was supposed to ovulated...so I was feeling positive, but then after reading loads of post saying that people had all these symptoms when they had just come off the pill it made me think perhaps its in my head or something. Even OH has said that he can see spider veins on my bbs, and he knows that my bbs/nipples have been so sore lately.
I know it's not over til AF shows, but now I'm worried she will.

Wow 12 weeks?! That's amazing, and you had no idea?! xxxx

About 7 week before then i thought i might be and took a test as i was having jabs for travelling around the east - i must of been 5 weeks but came out negative so i had my jabs and went travelling, when i got back i thought i'd picked up a bug from my travels, then i started feeling better then it was christmas so busy busy busy - we were due to party on new years eve and i thought i'd just check as i was going to drink (a lot) and it was positive - me and dh just saw in the new year on the sofa going 'we're going to be parents' . . .surreal evening :lol:

If it doesn't happen this month (but i hope and pray it does) don't panic - when it does it'll be wonderful and you'll be on cloud9 :cloud9:

Your symptoms sound good and a sign that your hormone are kicking in!!! :thumbup:
 
microgynon . . . Doctor told me i couldn't get pregnant until i'd had a withdrawal bleed but i never got one . . . was super busy and not counting dates etc (ah those were the days ) and when i finally got a :bfp: and they sent me for a 4 week dating scan to be told i was 12 weeks pregnant . . . i thought i had flu :lol:

I was on Microgyon when I was about 16 but I had to change because it was just making AF very heavy and painful. Loestrin 20 Ive been on ever since, its made my AF about 2/3 days long and not heavy at all and no cramps. Heaven lol. But we decided that we wanted to NTNP so I finished my last pill on 13/3 had my withdrawal bleed on 16/3-18/3 - didn't bleed a lot and was quite light, which made me think perhaps it happened last month, as i missed about 3 pills in a row (not intentional though) but I took a test about a week ago, BFN. Me and OH had bd for about a week straight around the time I was supposed to ovulated...so I was feeling positive, but then after reading loads of post saying that people had all these symptoms when they had just come off the pill it made me think perhaps its in my head or something. Even OH has said that he can see spider veins on my bbs, and he knows that my bbs/nipples have been so sore lately.
I know it's not over til AF shows, but now I'm worried she will.

Wow 12 weeks?! That's amazing, and you had no idea?! xxxx

About 7 week before then i thought i might be and took a test as i was having jabs for travelling around the east - i must of been 5 weeks but came out negative so i had my jabs and went travelling, when i got back i thought i'd picked up a bug from my travels, then i started feeling better then it was christmas so busy busy busy - we were due to party on new years eve and i thought i'd just check as i was going to drink (a lot) and it was positive - me and dh just saw in the new year on the sofa going 'we're going to be parents' . . .surreal evening :lol:

If it doesn't happen this month (but i hope and pray it does) don't panic - when it does it'll be wonderful and you'll be on cloud9 :cloud9:

Your symptoms sound good and a sign that your hormone are kicking in!!! :thumbup:

Wow thats amazing! I've heard people don't even know there pregnant for several months in some cases because of irregular AF or just because like you, so busy.
I hope it does happen this month, I know if it doesn't then it will happen when it's ready. I know people hear this all the time, but I'm so ready to have a baby. It would be such an amazing experience to go through.
I hope they do. Although I came off the pill for 2 months a while ago, I had similar symptoms (just from coming off the pill though) but nothing as bad as this, I didn't have the spider veins on my bbs, and my bbs have never ever been this sore, not even before AF due. I have had an increase in CM, it's now a creamy/pale yellow CM (Sorry TMI), and I've heard this a good sign. I don't know. Will soon find out, should be testing end of weekend..thats if I don't cave in before. lol

xxx
 
microgynon . . . Doctor told me i couldn't get pregnant until i'd had a withdrawal bleed but i never got one . . . was super busy and not counting dates etc (ah those were the days ) and when i finally got a :bfp: and they sent me for a 4 week dating scan to be told i was 12 weeks pregnant . . . i thought i had flu :lol:

I was on Microgyon when I was about 16 but I had to change because it was just making AF very heavy and painful. Loestrin 20 Ive been on ever since, its made my AF about 2/3 days long and not heavy at all and no cramps. Heaven lol. But we decided that we wanted to NTNP so I finished my last pill on 13/3 had my withdrawal bleed on 16/3-18/3 - didn't bleed a lot and was quite light, which made me think perhaps it happened last month, as i missed about 3 pills in a row (not intentional though) but I took a test about a week ago, BFN. Me and OH had bd for about a week straight around the time I was supposed to ovulated...so I was feeling positive, but then after reading loads of post saying that people had all these symptoms when they had just come off the pill it made me think perhaps its in my head or something. Even OH has said that he can see spider veins on my bbs, and he knows that my bbs/nipples have been so sore lately.
I know it's not over til AF shows, but now I'm worried she will.

Wow 12 weeks?! That's amazing, and you had no idea?! xxxx

About 7 week before then i thought i might be and took a test as i was having jabs for travelling around the east - i must of been 5 weeks but came out negative so i had my jabs and went travelling, when i got back i thought i'd picked up a bug from my travels, then i started feeling better then it was christmas so busy busy busy - we were due to party on new years eve and i thought i'd just check as i was going to drink (a lot) and it was positive - me and dh just saw in the new year on the sofa going 'we're going to be parents' . . .surreal evening :lol:

If it doesn't happen this month (but i hope and pray it does) don't panic - when it does it'll be wonderful and you'll be on cloud9 :cloud9:

Your symptoms sound good and a sign that your hormone are kicking in!!! :thumbup:

Wow thats amazing! I've heard people don't even know there pregnant for several months in some cases because of irregular AF or just because like you, so busy.
I hope it does happen this month, I know if it doesn't then it will happen when it's ready. I know people hear this all the time, but I'm so ready to have a baby. It would be such an amazing experience to go through.
I hope they do. Although I came off the pill for 2 months a while ago, I had similar symptoms (just from coming off the pill though) but nothing as bad as this, I didn't have the spider veins on my bbs, and my bbs have never ever been this sore, not even before AF due. I have had an increase in CM, it's now a creamy/pale yellow CM (Sorry TMI), and I've heard this a good sign. I don't know. Will soon find out, should be testing end of weekend..thats if I don't cave in before. lol

xxx

Does sound very very promising . . . keep me posted - praying it's your :bfp: x
 
Thank you, and also for you're lovely words, it's real nice to hear. Will do xxx
 
Does anyone know weather veiny bbs are a symptom of early pregnancy or from coming off pill? I've googled it, but not had a clear answer, but I haven't seen anything about it for symptoms coming off pill...still hope perhaps? xx
 
Mine were very veiny during pregnancy but can't remember if it was as early as this . . . def a sign of pregnancy just not sure on the timing - sorry HTH's x
 
Thank you for replying again hun, I'm just so worried, because like I said all the other symptoms could be side effects from coming off pill, but I'm sure veiny bbs isn't one of those? Maybe I'm wrong though.. Wondering weather it could be that hmm :S xxx
 

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