feeling nervous !

[Stacey_89]

I know they say you dont have a higher chance of miscarrying twice.....
but im so nervous !!
Every little cramp and twinge makes me panic and im constantly checking out for blood.

All i keep thinking is what if it happens again????
i can not actualy go through all that again !

and iv heard aswell not everyone gets offerd a early scan after 1 loss unless your having problems like cramping n stuff which is even more worse cuz i will have to wait till im 12 weeks !

but thing is i dont even know how far i am exactly seeing as before my periods were all over the place and have no idea when i OV. im guessing maybe 5 or 6 weeks.


i know this stuff has probably been posted so many times about worries, but thought it wud maybe help if i get some replys back from woman who are near the end of their pregnancy after a previous loss.

Thaannkss

 

[biteable]

Hi stacey,i had a mmc in 2007 and went on to have a little boy in 2008 and am now pregnant again,i wont lie i worried over every little twinge and sympton and had 2 early scans.Maybe you could ask your gp for an early scan i havnt asked this time as i had a sucessful pregnancy last time so didnt think theyd give me one,but i have paid for a private one on sat and im petrified.After a loss being scared/nervous/paranoid is normal and we are all in the same boat here,im sure ur bean will be fine wishing you a happy and healthy 9 mths x