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LilMiss_91
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Bit of background, me, OH and LO currently live with my parents while we save for a mortgage. OH works and I'm a SAHM (looking for part time work).
So LO is napping and I've just been browsing local houses up for sale. And we can't afford anything. The banks will only lend us about £60k, and around here that's barely enough for a garden freakin' shed :,(
I'm starting to get to the point where I would like to think about trying for another baby (the plan was to have a 3yr gap). And I just can't see that happening. We can't even afford 2 bed house let alone a 3 bed. I feel like we're going to be stuck for years not being to grow and extend our family and then there'll be a massive age gap and everything will be so disjointed and horrible I feel so sad and unhappy thinking about it. I just feel like it's never going to happen and we'll just be a teeny tiny family of 3 for ever and ever and be stuck a teeny tiny little house we can barely afford. Anyone else in a similar situation?
So LO is napping and I've just been browsing local houses up for sale. And we can't afford anything. The banks will only lend us about £60k, and around here that's barely enough for a garden freakin' shed :,(
I'm starting to get to the point where I would like to think about trying for another baby (the plan was to have a 3yr gap). And I just can't see that happening. We can't even afford 2 bed house let alone a 3 bed. I feel like we're going to be stuck for years not being to grow and extend our family and then there'll be a massive age gap and everything will be so disjointed and horrible I feel so sad and unhappy thinking about it. I just feel like it's never going to happen and we'll just be a teeny tiny family of 3 for ever and ever and be stuck a teeny tiny little house we can barely afford. Anyone else in a similar situation?