Feeling sad

[sugarpuff]

There's no need to reply, I'm just feeling sad today and wanted to write it down

When I got pregnant after just over two years ttc, I didn't think life would be so cruel as to take away my baby. I even had a due date buddy that I had known for almost four years, she was due on exactly the same day as me. Well I lost my baby at only five weeks but today I had the delight of logging into Facebook and seeing her 12 week scan and everyone congratulating her. I feel bad but I can't bring myself to comment, I should have been having my scan today too. But instead I'm not pregnant and with my medical history, may never be again.

Going to go give my daughter a big hug now and try not to cry on her

 

[sedgeez]

There's no need to reply, I'm just feeling sad today and wanted to write it down

When I got pregnant after just over two years ttc, I didn't think life would be so cruel as to take away my baby. I even had a due date buddy that I had known for almost four years, she was due on exactly the same day as me. Well I lost my baby at only five weeks but today I had the delight of logging into Facebook and seeing her 12 week scan and everyone congratulating her. I feel bad but I can't bring myself to comment, I should have been having my scan today too. But instead I'm not pregnant and with my medical history, may never be again.

Going to go give my daughter a big hug now and try not to cry on her

i dont blame you for feeling that way about your friends scan. i would feel that way too. it must be very hard with her being exactly where you should be

i dont know what to say to make you feel better but im always here if you need to talk

i hope you feel ok

xxx

 

[george83]

 

[suzieishere]

I'm very sorry for your loss. It is very hard to comment/be happy for other people.
As she said ^^^ we are here if you need to talk to/vent/have advice/etc.
you aren't alone.
give your daughter lots of love and I hope that gives you some comfort

 

[LucyLake]

I'm so sorry for your loss . I'm feeling the same pain as a close friend just announced she's 15 weeks and another put up pictures of her son changing a doll's diaper and used it to announce she's 12 weeks . Praying you get your rainbow baby

 

[Kasey84]

I'm so sorry your going through this. I too have a friend who is due a day after what would have been my due date. I'm happy for her, but Every time she puts up a new pic or status about the pregnancy, my heart breaks. I cut myself off from fb...haven't been on it in a week...I just need a little break to heal. Hugs.

 

[Lovechristmas]

I feel sorry for your loss, vent as much as you like it is much better than keeping it inside.

Today a girl from my class at school announced her pregnancy on Facebook and she would have been 5 days later than me. Ouch it hurt.

Also broke down when my husband told me his assistant was expecting.

Hope you're okay sugar puff!

Counting our blessing that its hapened now and not further down the line.

 

[sugarpuff]

Thanks so much for all your kind replies, it means a lot to me

I know I'm incredibly lucky as I already have my beautiful daughter (who I also struggled to conceive), it just makes me sad that I may never give her a sibling that she desperately wants (although I'm sure she'd change her mind if we do eventually have one )