felling lonely and sad

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive' started by kitty_kat, Apr 13, 2009.

  1. kitty_kat

    kitty_kat Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Apr 13, 2009
    Messages:
    70
    Likes Received:
    0
    me and my partner have been trying for a baby since last november but with little luck i have been off the pill for a year and have given up smoking to try to keep my body clear ready for my baby is there something wrong with me please help im desperate and so is my partner for a bundle of joy : (
     
  2. aurora

    aurora Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Nov 1, 2008
    Messages:
    4,159
    Likes Received:
    0
    Have you talked to your doctor hun? Or better yet, do you chart at all so you know when your fertile time is?
     
  3. Jessa

    Jessa Guest

    As hard as it is to keep trying with no positive result, keep going. Remember that it takes some people longer to get their BFP, but that doesn't mean you're not going to get it. Hang in there. Try your hardest to remain positive and rely on each other.
     
  4. anna'ellisia

    anna'ellisia Guest

    hey..... i think :hugs::hug::hugs: are needed firstly!
    i know the feeling! wehave been tryign since december and DH and i have stil not conceived!
    its a constant struggle but DH has a positive attitude that it will happen by sayign next month.... i get tired sometimes of hearing it but i know exactly how u feel hun..... thats what we here at BnB are here for to support and talk to each other! whenever ur down tlk to us!

    conceiving is like winning the lottery! u never know when it will happen or how long it may take!

    try to keep smiling and enjoy the baby making!
    xxx
     
  5. overcomer79

    overcomer79 LT-TTC success 3.5yrs

    Joined:
    Jan 14, 2009
    Messages:
    5,527
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hey hun,

    You will get your :bfp:. Try to enjoy your time though. It took me and my OH over 3 years to conceive but it was worth the wait and we got an unexpected christmas present. :hug::hugs::hug:
     
  6. caz81

    caz81 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Mar 28, 2009
    Messages:
    7,189
    Likes Received:
    0
    :hug: you will get your :bfp: in the end, and it will be worth all the more when you finally do xx
     
  7. toby2

    toby2 Mum of 1,expecting #2

    Joined:
    Feb 9, 2009
    Messages:
    1,675
    Likes Received:
    0
    it might feel like forever but it can take an 'average' couple with no other issues up to a year to concieve-dont start feeling like something is up so soon. its so tough when you want something that seems to come so easy to others but it sounds like you are taking good care of yourself so i am sure you are doing all the right things:hug:
    Chatting here helps and like someone said maybe you could try charting for a couple of months so you get to know your cycle which my make you feel more confident? I dont take my temp but i do use ovalation prediction sticks so i know wheni am going to ovulate which makes me feel like i am giving it my best shot!!!
    :hugs: be kind to yourself, am sure you will have your BFP before you know it:hugs:
     
  8. trying4no1

    trying4no1 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Mar 15, 2009
    Messages:
    161
    Likes Received:
    0
    sorry your feeling so down huni, we all know how ur feeling as we all feel the same, were here for you anytime u wanna talk or have a good old rant, hope u get a bfp soon x
     
  9. Zipp

    Zipp Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Jan 18, 2009
    Messages:
    814
    Likes Received:
    0
    :hugs:

    It really is so hard - we've been trying for three years now.

    Unfortunately sometimes it just takes a while for no particular reason. There is a friend of mine who has two girls both of which she conceived more or less straight away. She then tried for a third and it took her about a two and a half years she became convinced something was wrong. The minute she went to the Doctor for tests she became pregnant. She is now content and healthy with her bump.

    But you know there are some fantastic ladies here anytime you feel lonely.

    x
     
  10. nessie01

    nessie01 Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Feb 15, 2009
    Messages:
    274
    Likes Received:
    0
    hi im with you..............i have lots of medical probs as long as your arm lol.........and im beggining to think the stress of these are making me not concieve.............but i still havnt given up hope..........so hang in there...........you have done everything right!!!! our :happydance: will come!!!

    so lots of :dust:
    ness:hugs:
     
  11. broodylocket

    broodylocket Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Mar 6, 2009
    Messages:
    2,171
    Likes Received:
    0
    never give up hope xx
     
  12. kitty_kat

    kitty_kat Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Apr 13, 2009
    Messages:
    70
    Likes Received:
    0
    i have an appointment with my doctor 2morrow after reading your best wishes to me what should i ask them?
     
  13. MonkeyFeet

    MonkeyFeet Pregnant after ICSI

    Joined:
    Feb 27, 2008
    Messages:
    297
    Likes Received:
    0
    You can tell them how long you've been trying for but I think unless you're over 35 they don't do any tests or anything until you've been TTC unsuccessfully for 12 months, don't quote me on that though!!

    I'm sorry it seems to be taking so long and you're frustrated, good luck at the doctors and I hope they can give you some good advice.
     

Share This Page

  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice