Oh my!!! Why did no one tell me how bad this was gonna be??? It wasnt like this with dd or ds1.... or at least i don't remember it being this way. **TMI** I've had to use maternity pads.. ive used about 8 today.... everytime I go to the toilet it turns the water red its soo bad... quite a few clots too. Is this normal? Its been like this all day yesterday and today.