MoBaby
Mommy to a precious son
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I have been following barb since she came on here. I felt heartbroken reading her blog and when she had the mc after the IUI. Then each step just seemed to be harder and harder. Having tubes removed, multiple failuresI was so excited when I saw her positive pregnancy test. So excited she finally got her BFP...but then I saw about the selective reduction. This truly breaks my heart. To think that one of those poor babies wont even get a chance. That one of those poor babies is going to be killed around 12 wks by having a drug injected into its heart to make it stop beating. This saddens me deeply. My heart is breaking for that poor child! I believe life starts at conception and feel IVF doesnt change that. I look at my embryo that was transferred and stand amazed that my son is now here living and breathing. I could never choose to kill one of my children, in such a horrific way none the less. I was so heartbroken to read your decision. I have an extremely high risk of carrying twins as I have only half a uterus but when my RE said are you sure to do this I knew that if both stuck then I would carry twins. No question about it. I could not imagine choosing to deliberately killing one of my children. I hope this decision doesnt come lightly for you. I hope you really reconsider what you are about to do. Please look at videos of what happens to that poor baby. Everyone I know who has been pregnant with twins has had surprisingly healthy pregnancies. Twins doesnt always mean disaster. I cant support this decision and I really hope you reconsider life for both babies.
I also support iluvbabies. Good for you for being brave enough to say what many others are thinking!
I also support iluvbabies. Good for you for being brave enough to say what many others are thinking!