first time TTC. advice? =]

[luckyyou]

Me and my fiance just started to stop our prevention methods (condoms and pullout method) last month. Naturally because I wanted it I started to see symptoms that led to nothing. My period started july 27 and ended aug 1 then my next one started aug 29 (which was late) and ended on either september 1 or 2nd I don't remember which. On the 3rd and 4th we had BD. Now if I'm not late this month I figured I should be ov around the 11th...? I think I'm normally on a 28 to 31 day cycle. Normally closer to 28-29 days. Up until this past cycle it always came on the 27 and ended around the 1st or 2nd. What are the chances from the 3rd and 4th of us getting pregnant? And if we had BD on friday the 10th is there a good chance or better chance from doing it then too?? Please help and give advice!

 

[Wildflower]

Me and my fiance just started to stop our prevention methods (condoms and pullout method) last month. Naturally because I wanted it I started to see symptoms that led to nothing. My period started july 27 and ended aug 1 then my next one started aug 29 (which was late) and ended on either september 1 or 2nd I don't remember which. On the 3rd and 4th we had BD. Now if I'm not late this month I figured I should be ov around the 11th...? I think I'm normally on a 28 to 31 day cycle. Normally closer to 28-29 days. Up until this past cycle it always came on the 27 and ended around the 1st or 2nd. What are the chances from the 3rd and 4th of us getting pregnant? And if we had BD on friday the 10th is there a good chance or better chance from doing it then too?? Please help and give advice!

The chances of you O'ing on CD6/7 are pretty slim. Most people O later in their cycles than that. Of course it is always possible if you aren't sure of when you are O'ing. It's really impossible to know which days to have sex on if you aren't doing anything to track your O date.

 

[cheekybint]

If you are taking the relaxed approach to TTC (which to be honest is the best approach but not always the easiest!) I would suggest BDing every other day between CD10 and CD20 and hopefully you'll hit the target!

Good luck xxxxxxx

 

[luckyyou]

That is the approach we are taking at this time. Between him having work and me having school we don't get to see each other much =[ normally on weekends. I know for sure we are going out on the 10th and are planning to DB then but that might be the only time we get to depending on what the rest of the weekend holds for us and what we need to get done. Is there any chance that even just doing it once on the 10th that I could get pregnant? I know if there is a chance it'll probably be low so I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much...

 

[Dukechick]

Good luck!! My hubby and I just decided we would try again for our second

We are taking the relaxed way, and are planning on having sex every other (or everyday) around my next ovulation. Good luck!! I wish you all the best, and I hope you get a quick BFP!!

 

[cheekybint]

Any sex you have near ovulation is always going to give you a chance of conception Hopefully you will manage to get a few extra BDing sessions in to help increase the chance!

 

[luckyyou]

I'm hoping so too. I come home friday but I have to be back at school for classes on monday. Unless we get the chance to see each other during the week for a while it'll only be those 3 days that we will have the chance. We are deff DB friday but should we sat and sun too if we get the chance or only friday and sunday (the every other day thing...?)

 

[cheekybint]

Ignoring the TTC for a moment; you only get to see him for the 3 days, I'd be having as much sex as possible!

Enjoy your weekend together, try not to put too much emphasis on TTC and have sex when it suits you

 

[luckyyou]

Hi =] I just checked my calender after class and I stopped my period on the 1st this month making my normally 6-7 day period a like 3 and a half days period (it hadn't started until late at night the 29th). Just today after I got back I noticed cramps in my lower stomach kind of like early period cramps. Is this anything and/or could I be ov ealry?

 

[awaitingrmb]

relax relax relax. and of course baby dance at every other day from 5 days before ovulation, on the day of ovulation, and maybe the day after. It is extra hard for me to relax but hopefully you are different.

 

[luckyyou]

so I am about 8 dpo now and i noticed a few more symptoms that idk what they are. I have bad abdominal cramps after BD and i also have cramping in my lower right side (tho i swear i had ov cramps this month in my left side). The abdominal cramps also make me nauseous but not actually make me get sick. (TMI alert) it also gives me diarrhea. sorry.. Ive also noticed that I have a few little white bumps on my BBs. I just noticed them tonight. other than that im not rly exausted anymore or have that worn down feeling and i no longer have a headache. i havent really had anything until these cramps came on after BD. any idea what it could be and if its a good sign or not?