FOB rant

[laura1991]

Soo i havent been on for ages so most of you wont know me but im having so much trouble with FOB

Ive changed Lilys nursery to one that is walking distance from me, shes not settle yet buts shes been at home with me for the past 12 weeks, now she get a bit upset in the morning but fine after im gone, hes saying im a horrible mother for it and if he could he'd take Lily from me. Im sick of his abuse. It will never end its driving me insane he threatens me till i give in everytime.

 

[mayb_baby]

He cannot take Lilly from you I see loads of babies screaming for there mummies when I leave Michael down especially babies over the age of 11 months, but they soon calm down.

I would tell him to clear off and if he doesn't like it get the police involved and say you are being threatened and abused by him, if you get there first then he will be lucky to even get to see Lilly let alone threaten you.

You'r situation sounds awful but I would defiantly get an authoritive figure involved to ensure that this gets resolved properly even if you say it to you'r HV and see what she suggests
Hope all goes well

 

[annawrigley]

I've recently (well, yesterday lol) put Noah back into nursery to get him back used to it and he cried his eyes out when I left him yesterday I felt sooo bad but I know he will have got over it straight away and had a good day. Don't feel bad about it, nursery is great for them xxx

 

[pinkribbon]

Jake doesn't go to nursery but you are in no way a bad mother for putting her in nursery!!

 

[lauram_92]

He is just being stupid, ignore him! But as Lorna said I'd get something done about him!

 

[laura1991]

Ive already been to court about arrangements,

 

[x__amour]

What an idiot! There's nothing wrong with having your child in nursery! Ugh. He sounds like a complete asshole!

 

[pinkribbon]

I think I have you on tumblr (i havent been on in agess cos ive only recently got the internet back) but from what i've read he is purposely awkward!! xx

 

[rileybaby]

Omg, how are you a bad mother for that?! Riley goes to nursery, hes only been for 4 days and he has cried every time but he will get used to it, ive spent every day with him until now so of course he will find it hard. My OH is the same.. im a bad mum for apparntly giving him asthma from not drying his hair properly.. bad mum for cuddling him if he falls over.. the list is never ending! Let it go over your head

 

[wishuwerehere]

If she getting upset in the morning can you give them a ring at lunchtime to check how she's doing? I do this if issy's upset in the morning and she's always fine by lunch! I'm sure lilly is too, he's just being a twat.

 

[laura1991]

Shes fine as soon as i walk out the door! I always ring and check! He just loves putting me down!