Follow up to my thread about my neighbour coming onto husband

[Chocciebutton]

I am worried sick!!!!!!! In my earlier thread I posted about a neighbour of mine coming onto my husband and another lady warning me about this women.......well the neighbours directly next door to her are moving next saturday and have told my husband why..................... Apparantley this mad women who is after my husband wants a child desperatley and approached the couple who are moving and asked them if they would carry a child for her !!!!
So here I am worried sick that not only does she fancy my husband but that she is also so desperate to have a baby she has gone around asking people to be surrogate parents!!!!!! I am scared she may harm me or my baby!
Am I being silly or over the top, this is now going to spoil my pregnancy for me now I am so worried . What would you do?

 

[Chocciebutton]

This is not the only reason they are moving, she is just mental and has a criminal record for violence

 

[sparkle_1979]

just stay well away from her hun she sounds like a right nut job! Keep yourself to yourself and make sure hubby doesn't even smile at her cause if she is not all the ticket she might even take that was a come on.

Dont worry though, enjoy your pregnancy and remember your hormones are going be high and make you extra paranoid x

 

[Chocciebutton]

Thanks sparkle i cant stop crying at the moment and I know I am being silly, my hormones are raging at the moment lol

 

[babyerin]

Dont let this spoil your pregnancy, she's just a very confused woman by the sounds of it. You know my feeling on her coming on to your OH, i thought that was despicable but she is obviously disturbed.
I would ignore her totally, wouldnt even engage her in conversation, try and avoid her. She probably will be jealous of you, but i am doubtful she would try and hurt you. If she ever makes you feel in danger or threatens you take it straight to the police if that would set your mind at rest.
Don't let the what if's and the maybe's ruin your special time, deal with it if it comes to it but in the meantime don't sweat the small stuff and take it easy..remember if you are stressed little bubba feels it too!
sending you big hugs

 

[Laura2919]

I would just stay well away from her. Sounds like that would be a good option.

 

[NuKe]

it doesnt sound to ME like she would hurt u or ur baby hun, maybe talk to her (by this i mean tell her to piss off away from ur hubby!)

 

[Midnight_Fairy]

Just distance yourself from her, say hi and smile but dont have any convo x

 

[Chocciebutton]

Thanks for the acvice....Ive calmed down a bit now thank god!!!! it must be my hormones partly. I have never really had much conversation with this lady anyway, just hello really. I will ignore her just hope the novelty wears off for her soon