DH and I are gonna start the BD tonight and will do so EOD until I get a positive OPK (we're swaying for a girl) but I'm freaking out here. Of course every woman wants the best sperm quality from her SO, but I'm like: are we BDing too much? too little? did the hot springs kill the sperm or just damage the DNA and lead to a baby with three heads? what about the hot showers DH takes every day? is that the reason we haven't had an oopsie in seven years? OMG!!! anyone else freaking out?