when my cousin had her baby in january our local hospital have moved all the sterilising equipment for bottle feeding to the other end of the hospital, to put FF mums off so they would have to walk all that way to make a bottle.
my cousin had a c-section as well as waiting to have her gall bladder removed around the same time, had to walk to the other side of the hospital to prepare a bottle. when she asked for help as she was in pain. the care assistant said well you'll have to get used to doing it yourself, this was the same day she had her c-section.
im all for encouraging BF (im hoping to be able to myself ) but i dont agree with FF mums being made to feel discriminated or singled out.
so not all care assistants in hospitals are happy to help sadly.
i'll also add this hospital provided just the BF mums with brilliant support and the best equipment to hand if they needed it. but FF mums were shoved in the corner.
i do agree with formula being stopped in hospitals as i think the money could be used elsewhere and if they were already planning on FF then im guessing new FF mums would have already got formula ready at home so i dont think it will make any difference putting a can in your bag, but i hope they recieve better support than what my cousin did with FF xxx
i think it's fine, as long as they can provide for mothers who can't breastfeed.
Its only around 2% of women who cant actually breastfeed, the human race would have died out years ago otherwise. Unfortunately its usually lack of support and education that makes women think they cant breastfeed, when if they had the proper help they would have been able to continue.
If you are not planning on breastfeeding, or even if your not sure, why not take a few ready made bottles in with you? dont need to worry then, you have a back up and you are already going to be spending hundreds of pounds a year on formula, so what difference is one or two days more going to make?
If your baby is premature then mums are encouraged to breastfeed or express to tube feed even more. i know in my unit on neonatal they explain that prem babies' guts are so sensitive and cows milk is actually very bad for them because they just cant digest it, so i would say all those mothers are desperately encouraged to breastfeed their babies and if the mums dont want to they ask to give them donor milk instead.
I'm sorry but a baby is a patient too. They are poked and prided and tested and get discharged at the end so they are a patient. Moms are taken care of nutritionally and so should the babies. None of that should have anything to do with money. I'm a bd'g mom so don't have to worry about this but all babies nutrition should be provided. That's money well spent.
And tbh, whichever method you choose to feed your baby, you can count on rude comments. Bf'g moms get it just as bad as ff moms. So yeah, breast is best BUT it's up to the mom to decide how to feed. Some moms just don't feel comfortable doing it and if they are pushed into something it's just going to stress mom and baby out and that's not healthy.
I just feel strongly that milk should be provided at hospitals. I'm sure they won't be paying full price for formula that we do.
I personally think the following:
1. If mother is intending to FF then she should bring in her own stuff
2. If mother is intending to BF then the midwives need to spend time and effort to encourage this practice.
3. 24 hour support needs to be available for mothers who are breastfeeding to ensure that they get off to the best start.
4. When a mother cannot breastfeed, then the healthcare practioners need to be supportive through what is an angst ridden phase, and give good information on how to formula feed.
Personally I breastfed for 10 days, but not effectively as I had a post partum infection, it meant that my son who was born at 3990g went to 3250g, a massive loss of weight and he ended up in Neonatal at 5pm on a Friday night. Support for BF was offered for Tuesday at 10am, seriously, was I meant to do with my son for the weekend? They sent me away with mini bottles as I had no clue how to FF - it was a nightmare.
What made it worse that although I still had m/w visits and h/v visits they were 'not allowed' to advise on formula as they have to encourage BF.
The NHS should allocate resources in the correct way, and ensure that the staff are there around the clock to support the BF process.
Personally I am getting fed up of the BF mafia, where the FF mums are 'second class' because of reasons that the BF mafia have no interest in understanding.
I personally think the following:
1. If mother is intending to FF then she should bring in her own stuff
2. If mother is intending to BF then the midwives need to spend time and effort to encourage this practice.
3. 24 hour support needs to be available for mothers who are breastfeeding to ensure that they get off to the best start.
4. When a mother cannot breastfeed, then the healthcare practioners need to be supportive through what is an angst ridden phase, and give good information on how to formula feed.
Personally I breastfed for 10 days, but not effectively as I had a post partum infection, it meant that my son who was born at 3990g went to 3250g, a massive loss of weight and he ended up in Neonatal at 5pm on a Friday night. Support for BF was offered for Tuesday at 10am, seriously, was I meant to do with my son for the weekend? They sent me away with mini bottles as I had no clue how to FF - it was a nightmare.
What made it worse that although I still had m/w visits and h/v visits they were 'not allowed' to advise on formula as they have to encourage BF.
The NHS should allocate resources in the correct way, and ensure that the staff are there around the clock to support the BF process.
Personally I am getting fed up of the BF mafia, where the FF mums are 'second class' because of reasons that the BF mafia have no interest in understanding.
I'm sorry but a baby is a patient too. They are poked and prided and tested and get discharged at the end so they are a patient. Moms are taken care of nutritionally and so should the babies. None of that should have anything to do with money. I'm a bd'g mom so don't have to worry about this but all babies nutrition should be provided. That's money well spent.
And tbh, whichever method you choose to feed your baby, you can count on rude comments. Bf'g moms get it just as bad as ff moms. So yeah, breast is best BUT it's up to the mom to decide how to feed. Some moms just don't feel comfortable doing it and if they are pushed into something it's just going to stress mom and baby out and that's not healthy.
I just feel strongly that milk should be provided at hospitals. I'm sure they won't be paying full price for formula that we do.
I'm sorry but a baby is a patient too. They are poked and prided and tested and get discharged at the end so they are a patient. Moms are taken care of nutritionally and so should the babies. None of that should have anything to do with money. I'm a bd'g mom so don't have to worry about this but all babies nutrition should be provided. That's money well spent.
And tbh, whichever method you choose to feed your baby, you can count on rude comments. Bf'g moms get it just as bad as ff moms. So yeah, breast is best BUT it's up to the mom to decide how to feed. Some moms just don't feel comfortable doing it and if they are pushed into something it's just going to stress mom and baby out and that's not healthy.
I just feel strongly that milk should be provided at hospitals. I'm sure they won't be paying full price for formula that we do.
As far as im aware hospitals cant get formula milk for discounted prices and definately not for free as this is against the law.