Friends Just Don't Understand...

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  1. TeenMum201198

    TeenMum201198 Member

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    My friends used to say should we go to a party but i thought now i was pregnant they maybe wouldn't ask something like that i was wrong. Would you ask a 12 week pregnant girl to go to a party with you ( and dance and rave party)? of course my answer was no but lol. :)
     
  2. syntaxerror

    syntaxerror Cael's Mom

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    No...but just because I wouldn't be going to something like that anyway. Not my thing.
     
  3. xSarahM

    xSarahM Two Beautiful Angels

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    I think you'd be more annoyed if you werent invited.. Trust me, you'd feel like you were losing them. :)
     
  4. dreabae

    dreabae Well-Known Member

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    ^ this... I mean just cause I cant drink doesnt mean I wouldnt like to go out. Your not paralyzed you can still dance and have fun! lol
     
  5. rainbows_x

    rainbows_x Mummy.

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    I would personally be more hurt if I wasn't invited, at least they arfe still thinking of you!

    And I went out clubbing at 15 weeks pregnant (nothing too major, mainly just seeing friends and a little bit of dancing.)
     
  6. oOskittlesOo

    oOskittlesOo Guest

    Lol I most definitely would :dohh: am I crazy? I've gone to a dance and 2 partys while pregnant. Everyone was drinking/smoking, I just got to dance and have fun laughing at everyone. I'll probably go to more while I'm pregnant also.
     
  7. krys

    krys Madi's Mommy

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    I wouldn't go seeing as it will probably be really crowded with people jumping and dancing around. You wouldn't want someone to bump your bump! Also, not sure if it would be a smokey atmosphere, and that's not good either. That being said, you weren't asking whether or not you should go, and I think it's best that you said no, good thinking :flower:

    As for them asking, I'm sure they were just being nice! I agree with others, I would be more upset if I wasn't invited. My friends stopped inviting me anywhere when I got pregnant. Not just to parties either, they stopped inviting me anywhere... I wish I would get invited somewhere, even if it was totally out of the question! I'd just be happy that they're still making an effort to include you! It's kind of a tricky situation, you could be mad that you did get invited or mad that you didn't. :shrug:
     
  8. Bexxx

    Bexxx Momface.

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    I'd rather I was asked than forgot about!

    I probably would go at 12 weeks...I'm going to a music festival next week when I'll be 35 weeks.
     
  9. emyandpotato

    emyandpotato Well-Known Member

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    I know how you feel, I'd like to be asked! When I said no to going out drinking a few times my 'friends' kind of gave up on me. Found out my so called best friends went to the cinema tonight without inviting me. It's not like X-men is gonna do me any harm. Tbh I haven't spoken to most of my friends in months now. You really find out who your real friends are in pregnancy.
     
  10. 20102001

    20102001 Yellow IVF Rainbow Baby

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    I'd go lol
     
  11. laura1991

    laura1991 Mummy to Lily

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    Id go! Your not that far along and you can have fun with out drinking!
     
  12. fantastica

    fantastica Mum.

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    At least they asked you, you'd feel worse if they didn't, why can't you go?! I mean you don't have to if you don't want too. I went everywhere with my friends when I was pregnant...infact I went clubbing a month before having LO...and was still out and about with them when I was overdue haha!

    You don't have to go, but don't turn all the invites down, you'll miss them if you lose them hun! X
     
  13. DollFaceJessi

    DollFaceJessi Pregnant with a princess

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    I still go out dancing, xD
     
  14. AmberS

    AmberS Well-Known Member

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    I wouldnt go just because of the risk of being pushed down/bumped into really hard by some crazy people/dancers. I wouldnt do anything that would put me into a situation that something like that could happen. But thats just me :) :hugs:
     
  15. TwilightAgain

    TwilightAgain LTW for our LO <3

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    I think it was nice of them to ask you :)
     
  16. trinaestella

    trinaestella Aliyah's mummy! <3

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    Of course they won't , I was like that when my friends were pregnant and I was going partying. Now I am pregnant, and people only ask me because they don't know, but my close friends who know don't ask me.
     
  17. xsadiex

    xsadiex Well-Known Member

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    I've also had a problem with friends not quite understanding, housemates in fact, being disrespectful taking drugs, smoking and being generally untidy and unclean in our house, i swear it's worse since i've been pregnant, so unthoughtful so I have to shut my self in my room the whole time, luckily im moving in a month.
     
  18. Court28

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    I think i'd be more hurt if they didnt ask, i still wouldn't go. But if i had a friend who was 12 weeks pregnant, i'd probably tend to ask her to go to the movies with me, or out for lunch more so than to a big party lol
     
  19. Chrissy7411

    Chrissy7411 Guest

    I would be hurt if they didn't invite me (not that I would want to go to a rave). My "friends" don't ask to hang out or invite me anywhere. The most I get from them is a comment on my bump pictures on facebook. That's about it... I would go out and dance if I knew I would be safe, but honestly in my opinion, a rave doesn't sound like the best place to be. Usually there's a lot of craziness going on! :haha:
     
  20. Hevalouaddict

    Hevalouaddict Mama to 3 beautiful babas

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    My friends waters broke in a nightclub. Dancing is good exercise too =)
     

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