I have this friend who was there for me in the beginning of my pregnancy and through all the bullshit with the FOB, and we were good friends before all of this as well. I made her godmother and she was totally on board and there for me 100%.. anyways the past 2 months she has basically dropped out of my life, we have seen each other like twice and its not the same as it used to be. I went to a bar for another friends birthday (didnt drink obv) and i saw this friend there with her other best friend who dislikes me, for no reason. We said hi, and she left with her friend 5 minutes later. I'm over this friendship, but im not confrontational or have the ability to be mean in any way but I need to tell her that she is not god mother anymore. I know she will be attending my baby shower on November 27th and I don't know if I should tell her before or afterwards.. any advice?