prettybirdy27
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I'm not quite sure what to do about this. Throughout my pregnancy I have been lucky to not really experience mood swings. When I do, I am able to reign them in and not act on them. I like to think I've remained very level headed so far. But in the past week, my husband, who is normally a pretty chill dude, has taken a complete 180 and started acting out on terrible mood swings. He has been starting fights, pouting, and the worst of all - taking my words and twisting them and trying to use them against me later. He never does any of this kind of stuff normally!
Earlier today we were talking about financing a car we are going to buy and he had a spreadsheet laid out with all the numbers. I pointed out that he forgot a part of it and then asked him to double check his equations when he is done, which he did. Then just now, several hours later, he called me to his computer to show me an entire spreadsheet he made just to prove me wrong, and then accused me of calling him stupid, rejecting his work, and calling him an idiot, and that this was going to bother him "for years" if he didn't confront me about it now. I never said any of those things!
This came on suddenly, and I'm starting to feel like he's the pregnant one, not me! But he has started to get really ugly while fighting, and is constantly taking my words and twisting them into something completely opposite of what I said. Im starting to get afraid of really talking to him. I'm pretty sure he is just getting really nervous about baby, especially since we are in third tri now. Anyone experience this, or know how I can deal with this?!
Earlier today we were talking about financing a car we are going to buy and he had a spreadsheet laid out with all the numbers. I pointed out that he forgot a part of it and then asked him to double check his equations when he is done, which he did. Then just now, several hours later, he called me to his computer to show me an entire spreadsheet he made just to prove me wrong, and then accused me of calling him stupid, rejecting his work, and calling him an idiot, and that this was going to bother him "for years" if he didn't confront me about it now. I never said any of those things!
This came on suddenly, and I'm starting to feel like he's the pregnant one, not me! But he has started to get really ugly while fighting, and is constantly taking my words and twisting them into something completely opposite of what I said. Im starting to get afraid of really talking to him. I'm pretty sure he is just getting really nervous about baby, especially since we are in third tri now. Anyone experience this, or know how I can deal with this?!