So hubby told me he doesnt want to have sex and get me pregnant if the only reason we are having sex is for that reason!!! ....So i think iam in a fertile period based on cm and cp and i obviously want to bd! but...how do i get him to have sex without him knowing that i am fertile, i mean he wants to get preggo but doenst want to have sex just for that reason..which i understand but i cant help it i want it more now .lol Any adivce on how to get him to bd with me ....the thing is he'll know cause i never am the one to ask for it unless its for this reason.., so help me ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe i can try and put the kids to bed and just massage him and maybe he will want it then. this is fuuny saying ! cause he always wants it lol and when i do he knows somethings up...how terrible is that...haha..im bad!