Hi just wonderd what your opinions were on gettin lo there first of something for eg their first proper bike etc I've just mentioned to oh that I want us to be the ones to get lo his first proper bike when the time comes- and not his mum who buys him those kinds of things and without asking us first. She got a push along bike Thingy last yr and then a crazy coop for his bd an a electric car this Christmas, it's all brill an saves us the money buying them I'm Pleased to revcive these but I just feel that I want and shud be the one to get his first bike, does anyone else feel Like that, is it ungrateful? I can just see her trying to get him one I just feel like it would be stealing my thunder or something and it's special isn't it his first bike along with other firsts too. Anuway I just told my oh an he pulled a face but said ok he knows what I mean but dint think he really does. It dosnt seem to bad at the mo as he's too young to understand but when he is old enough I don't want her out doing me! Is that stupid!? I dont know what will happen RE Santa and what presents come from where etc yet if hel believe all Prezzies come from Santa or just the ones under tree etc then nanny comes with big expensive cool toy an outshines all the other gifts! That's our place isn't it?