Alot of my friends that know im pregnant now (with my first) have asked me what I want as a Gift!!? I mean like every friend and I just dont know.. ..One friend the other day said just let me know what you want and il pick it up.. I dont want to be rude and say something thats £15 when they may only want to spend a £5.. The only thing I have said I DONT want is clothes, as by the looks of it my mums kitting the baby out for the first 9 months.. A friend of mine wants to throw a baby shower as well... What do eveyone else do in this situation? do you actual tell them what you want or let them pick something they want to... ?