skellysgirl
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I need your help.
Throughout this and my first two pregnancies i have suffered with bad pre natal depression, i get quite withdrawn and at points agressive and upset. had a bad day last sun and spent quite a lot of time crying. I have had a few sessions with the counciller at the maternity unit, so i spoke to her on the mon morn she suggested a meeting with my consultant, which i had last Wed
and between us we explain the situation as we have been working through this pregnancy together.
I met him well his intern and told her that i felt like this and that in my mind i only saw one solution which was to get this baby out and that i had been trying already. her response has been to offer me an induction originally for sun then rebooked for tommorrow (tues)
I am now in 2 minds, they told me that they would prefer me to deliver in hosp safely as its better than me trying myself.
But i feel wrong going for induction as its medical intervention and i think my reasons are maybe selfish. But at the same point this is what i have been waiting for for so long, and sometimes i just get sick or trying to cope and locking how i feel away.
A week ago and before, i would have jumped at this chance, now its getting closer im not sure if its just nerves.
The main dilemma is the fact i have had 2 very easy labours with no contractions.
If i go in tommorrow, i have to go in high dependancy rather than low, which means sacrificing the nice suite possible water birth etc.
If i dont i dont know how long it could take before this baby is born and just how my moods will react.
I have been pretty good since last week , as soon as i knew i had a date my moods seemed much better and i made myself a little plan to keep myself occupied. But all that could change..i know im not myself at times and its not fair on others around me.
What do i do Girlies?
Throughout this and my first two pregnancies i have suffered with bad pre natal depression, i get quite withdrawn and at points agressive and upset. had a bad day last sun and spent quite a lot of time crying. I have had a few sessions with the counciller at the maternity unit, so i spoke to her on the mon morn she suggested a meeting with my consultant, which i had last Wed
and between us we explain the situation as we have been working through this pregnancy together.
I met him well his intern and told her that i felt like this and that in my mind i only saw one solution which was to get this baby out and that i had been trying already. her response has been to offer me an induction originally for sun then rebooked for tommorrow (tues)
I am now in 2 minds, they told me that they would prefer me to deliver in hosp safely as its better than me trying myself.
But i feel wrong going for induction as its medical intervention and i think my reasons are maybe selfish. But at the same point this is what i have been waiting for for so long, and sometimes i just get sick or trying to cope and locking how i feel away.
A week ago and before, i would have jumped at this chance, now its getting closer im not sure if its just nerves.
The main dilemma is the fact i have had 2 very easy labours with no contractions.
If i go in tommorrow, i have to go in high dependancy rather than low, which means sacrificing the nice suite possible water birth etc.
If i dont i dont know how long it could take before this baby is born and just how my moods will react.
I have been pretty good since last week , as soon as i knew i had a date my moods seemed much better and i made myself a little plan to keep myself occupied. But all that could change..i know im not myself at times and its not fair on others around me.
What do i do Girlies?