Girls living at home/apart from their OHs

[tasha41]

Do you ever feel like a single mother?

 

[Serene123]

Rich is always here now, but when he wasn't (just on the weekends or whatever) yeah I did. I felt so lonely. Not like, alone lonely..... I can't explain it. There were people around but it wasn't right??

 

[Novbaby08]

lol I am a single mom....its the loneliest thing in the world.

 

[MissRhead]

Sorry hope you dont mind me interupting ive not had my baby yet but im dreading this. My OH only gets 6 weeks leave a year and the odd long weekend here and their, he lives with us when hes home but im terrified of having to be alone, i have my mum but i just dont think its the same xx

 

[tasha41]

Rich is always here now, but when he wasn't (just on the weekends or whatever) yeah I did. I felt so lonely. Not like, alone lonely..... I can't explain it. There were people around but it wasn't right??

Yeah, it's a very 'full house'.. my parents are both here, my brother & sister live here.. but I know exactly what you're saying. I wish he could move in here. I don't think it's an option though Even him staying over is a bit taboo still.. he has a couple of times but it's always awkward with my parents.

 

[Serene123]

Once you're together properly it'll all be worth it xx

 

[tasha41]

I know.. the wait just kills me! She's teething this week. Yesterday went to bed at 2am, tonight at midnight, then up at 1 for 20 minutes.. it's hard to do it by myself and feel like I'm not on my own with this, he's tucked in snoozing away.. I don't even miss the sleep I just hate seeing her cry and not being able to fix it for her right away

 

[Serene123]

Yup and when you're knackered you can't exactly kick your parents or siblings out of bed. It can be quite frustrating! x

 

[HotChocolate]

Have you not told him how you're feeling? xxx

 

[tasha41]

I tell him, he just says I'll thank him when we move out because we'll be in a better position and I'm lucky I live at home I get advice etc from my mom

 

[Kimboowee]

I live with my OH and I still feel like a single mum, he's never here, not by choice because its work and we need money but its still annoying

 

[Christine1993]

Im not a mum yet but im worried about feeling this way when baby is here as my other half lives 15 - 20 minutes away on the bus and it will be too much hassle for me to go see him everyday. xx

 

[MummyToAmberx]

Yeahh, me & OH used to live 250miles apart.
It certainly did feel like i was a single parent, i seen as a lone parent to. It sucked
Now i live with OH