Girls living at home/apart from their OHs

Discussion in 'Teen Pregnancy' started by tasha41, Aug 30, 2009.

  1. tasha41

    tasha41 Mum & Dad + 1

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    Do you ever feel like a single mother? :(
     
  2. Serene123

    Serene123 Guest

    Rich is always here now, but when he wasn't (just on the weekends or whatever) yeah I did. I felt so lonely. Not like, alone lonely..... I can't explain it. There were people around but it wasn't right??
     
  3. Novbaby08

    Novbaby08 Mom to Harley & Piper

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    lol I am a single mom....its the loneliest thing in the world.
     
  4. MissRhead

    MissRhead Well-Known Member

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    Sorry hope you dont mind me interupting ive not had my baby yet :lol: but im dreading this. My OH only gets 6 weeks leave a year and the odd long weekend here and their, he lives with us when hes home but im terrified of having to be alone, i have my mum but i just dont think its the same :( xx
     
  5. tasha41

    tasha41 Mum & Dad + 1

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    Yeah, it's a very 'full house'.. my parents are both here, my brother & sister live here.. but I know exactly what you're saying. I wish he could move in here. I don't think it's an option though :( Even him staying over is a bit taboo still.. he has a couple of times but it's always awkward with my parents.
     
  6. Serene123

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    Once you're together properly it'll all be worth it xx
     
  7. tasha41

    tasha41 Mum & Dad + 1

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    I know.. the wait just kills me! She's teething this week. Yesterday went to bed at 2am, tonight at midnight, then up at 1 for 20 minutes.. it's hard to do it by myself and feel like I'm not on my own with this, he's tucked in snoozing away.. I don't even miss the sleep I just hate seeing her cry and not being able to fix it for her right away :(
     
  8. Serene123

    Serene123 Guest

    Yup :( and when you're knackered you can't exactly kick your parents or siblings out of bed. It can be quite frustrating! x
     
  9. HotChocolate

    HotChocolate 2nd Trimester

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    Have you not told him how you're feeling? xxx
     
  10. tasha41

    tasha41 Mum & Dad + 1

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    I tell him, he just says I'll thank him when we move out because we'll be in a better position and I'm lucky I live at home I get advice etc from my mom
     
  11. Kimboowee

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    I live with my OH and I still feel like a single mum, he's never here, not by choice because its work and we need money but its still annoying
     
  12. Christine1993

    Christine1993 Full-time mummy to Aidan

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    Im not a mum yet but im worried about feeling this way when baby is here as my other half lives 15 - 20 minutes away on the bus and it will be too much hassle for me to go see him everyday. xx
     
  13. MummyToAmberx

    MummyToAmberx Mum to 3 Girls 1 Boy

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    Yeahh, me & OH used to live 250miles apart.
    It certainly did feel like i was a single parent, i seen as a lone parent to. It sucked
    Now i live with OH :)
     

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