So, I miscarried on March 11th. It was my second mc in a row. I set up an appointment to see a specialist on April 27th, and we agreed to use a condom until then. I also have this recurring bladder infection and am on antibiotics for it. I have had it on and off since October, so I went to see a urologist and he put me on a strong antibiotic for 2 weeks (I've taken it for 1 week). It seems to finally be helping. It also says on the label not to take it if you are pregnant or planning to become pregnant. OK, so last night DH and I have sex for the first time since the mc. I was expecting him to pull out and put a condom on before he "finished" (this is what we have always done in the past before ttc). HE DIDN'T! He finished inside me, and I told him he wasn't supposed to and he just says "Sorry!". Crap. Now I'm freaking out about the antibiotic. I really need it to finally clear this infection, and I wanted to be infection free before ttc. I'm not sure if I should finish taking it or not. Then, there is the whole issue about wanting to get a specialist opinion BEFORE getting pregnant again. I am so mad at him right now! I think it is likely (judging by cm) that I am ovulating around this time. Ugh.