Going to kill DH

[Girlnextdoor]

So, I miscarried on March 11th. It was my second mc in a row. I set up an appointment to see a specialist on April 27th, and we agreed to use a condom until then.

I also have this recurring bladder infection and am on antibiotics for it. I have had it on and off since October, so I went to see a urologist and he put me on a strong antibiotic for 2 weeks (I've taken it for 1 week). It seems to finally be helping. It also says on the label not to take it if you are pregnant or planning to become pregnant.

OK, so last night DH and I have sex for the first time since the mc. I was expecting him to pull out and put a condom on before he "finished" (this is what we have always done in the past before ttc). HE DIDN'T! He finished inside me, and I told him he wasn't supposed to and he just says "Sorry!". Crap. Now I'm freaking out about the antibiotic. I really need it to finally clear this infection, and I wanted to be infection free before ttc. I'm not sure if I should finish taking it or not. Then, there is the whole issue about wanting to get a specialist opinion BEFORE getting pregnant again.

I am so mad at him right now! I think it is likely (judging by cm) that I am ovulating around this time. Ugh.

 

[hollyw79]

I understand the concern.. I think you are fine and you are FOR SURE better off taking the antibiotic.. bc if you don't and you DO get preggo- it could make it worse if you don't resolve it. You don't really "share" anything with the baby until after implantation which isn't for 6-10 days after conception.. I am SURE you will be fine!

 

[Girlnextdoor]

I understand the concern.. I think you are fine and you are FOR SURE better off taking the antibiotic.. bc if you don't and you DO get preggo- it could make it worse if you don't resolve it. You don't really "share" anything with the baby until after implantation which isn't for 6-10 days after conception.. I am SURE you will be fine!

I didn't even think about implantation, that is a good point! Thanks for telling me that because I think that makes sense. I have one more week of it and I hate to stop now and have this stupid bladder infection come back.

 

[hollyw79]

Yeah, I think you will be done before that happens.. it MAY slightly overlap- but it would be worse for the infection to come back and have to take even STRONGER meds bc you didn't finish the first one. I think you're fine!

 

[Girlnextdoor]

I think you are right. I feel better now. THANK YOU! Now I still have to hope that he did not get me pregnant, as I really wanted to have my tests run first. I'm too scared of another mc. I guess what will be will be...

 

[hollyw79]

Well, everything happens for a reason!!

 

[Kayleigh Lou]

I was on antibiotics whilst i was pregnant before. I had a water infection and had to take them.

Im sure youl be fine hunni xxxxxxx