Going to kill DH

Discussion in 'TTC After A Loss' started by Girlnextdoor, Apr 3, 2011.

  1. Girlnextdoor

    Girlnextdoor Well-Known Member

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    So, I miscarried on March 11th. It was my second mc in a row. I set up an appointment to see a specialist on April 27th, and we agreed to use a condom until then.

    I also have this recurring bladder infection and am on antibiotics for it. I have had it on and off since October, so I went to see a urologist and he put me on a strong antibiotic for 2 weeks (I've taken it for 1 week). It seems to finally be helping. It also says on the label not to take it if you are pregnant or planning to become pregnant.

    OK, so last night DH and I have sex for the first time since the mc. I was expecting him to pull out and put a condom on before he "finished" (this is what we have always done in the past before ttc). HE DIDN'T! He finished inside me, and I told him he wasn't supposed to and he just says "Sorry!". Crap. Now I'm freaking out about the antibiotic. I really need it to finally clear this infection, and I wanted to be infection free before ttc. I'm not sure if I should finish taking it or not. Then, there is the whole issue about wanting to get a specialist opinion BEFORE getting pregnant again.

    I am so mad at him right now! :growlmad: I think it is likely (judging by cm) that I am ovulating around this time. Ugh.
     
  2. hollyw79

    hollyw79 Well-Known Member

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    I understand the concern.. I think you are fine and you are FOR SURE better off taking the antibiotic.. bc if you don't and you DO get preggo- it could make it worse if you don't resolve it. You don't really "share" anything with the baby until after implantation which isn't for 6-10 days after conception.. I am SURE you will be fine!
     
  3. Girlnextdoor

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    I didn't even think about implantation, that is a good point! Thanks for telling me that because I think that makes sense. I have one more week of it and I hate to stop now and have this stupid bladder infection come back.
     
  4. hollyw79

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    Yeah, I think you will be done before that happens.. it MAY slightly overlap- but it would be worse for the infection to come back and have to take even STRONGER meds bc you didn't finish the first one. I think you're fine! :hugs:
     
  5. Girlnextdoor

    Girlnextdoor Well-Known Member

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    I think you are right. I feel better now. THANK YOU! Now I still have to hope that he did not get me pregnant, as I really wanted to have my tests run first. I'm too scared of another mc. I guess what will be will be...
     
  6. hollyw79

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    Well, everything happens for a reason!! :hugs:
     
  7. Kayleigh Lou

    Kayleigh Lou Well-Known Member

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    I was on antibiotics whilst i was pregnant before. I had a water infection and had to take them.

    Im sure youl be fine hunni xxxxxxx
     

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