Gone off sex

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  1. pk4

    pk4 Well-Known Member

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    Has anyone else gone off sex? Im finding it hard to believe as Ive always had a high sex drive. But these past few weeks Ive just not been in the mood and when we do it I cant wait for it to be over. I dont feel the same about sex anymore. Its a new feeling and Im trying to get used to it. Most nights I just wanna go sleep. In my 1st pregnancy my partner said I was like a nymphomaniac wouldn't leave him alone. I know its all to do with hormones just find it weird as had high sex drive.
     
  2. eviestar

    eviestar Well-Known Member

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    ive gone off it too and i usually have a high sex drive. lets hope it comes back once bubbas here, hate feeling like this.
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  3. Broody1976

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    Me too - only positive is my OH works away through the week so I only have to have sex at weekend - God, that sounds so bad..... he's been great though not pressuring me or anything.

    I do feel a bit bad though cos when we were TTC, I was jumping his bones every time he came home and now I'm a bit "blah" about sex.

    This is the first week I've felt ok though, so maybe I'll suprise him by actually initiating some nookie this weekend ;)

    Hopefully it'll get better for you luvvie :hugs:
     
  4. pk4

    pk4 Well-Known Member

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    Yeh same here. Im usually the one to initiate sex lol! Dont think hes picked up on it yet. Dont want him to think its cos of him :)
     
  5. Jaybear5

    Jaybear5 Pregnant with baby #2

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    Mine has gone too, but mine is mainly due to a bleed I had 2 weeks ago, Am just too scared to do it incase I bleed again... :( x
     
  6. sueh81

    sueh81 Mummy to 1 & 1 on the way

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    we stopped having penetrative sex after I kept bleeding afterwards - this is something that always happened before I got pregnant so we decided to call it a day until LO arrives - we are still intimate in other ways though without having full blown sex!!! :)
     
  7. emzul

    emzul Mummy to Charlie Jack

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    Oh mee! I havent had any sex drive for months!

    Last night OH said to me "I dont think I want to have sex with you now I know what our baby looks like (we had a 4d scan at the weekend!)"

    He said if we have sex, he will not be able to help seeing baby's face!

    Sounds awful but I am secretly glad because I feel soooo unsexy at the moment, and even though OH says he fancies me MORE when I am pregnant, I feel like a moose....

    xx
     
  8. MegGriffin

    MegGriffin Guest

    same here, in 18 weeks, we've done it 3 times. It's more worry with me, i get myself worried that I'll harm the baby somehow(!) silly I know. x
     
  9. Lashes85

    Lashes85 Mommy to FOUR boys <3

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    In 25 weeks we haven't done the deed once :(
    At this moment in time, if I never have sex again I'll be happy. Do feel bad for OH thou, his made no secret that his gagging for it. Xx
     
  10. sueh81

    sueh81 Mummy to 1 & 1 on the way

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    you must've done it at least 'once' iykwim!!!! :haha: xx
     
  11. AngelBunny

    AngelBunny George's Mummy

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    Yup I used to have a much higher sex drive than OH now I'm really not bothered. Sometimes it's nice, mostly I'm finding it quite painful its like my foof isn't working anymore. Coma foof! Xx
     
  12. pk4

    pk4 Well-Known Member

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    Im glad its not just me then. I never thought id be like this, would much rather cuddle than have sex. I hope it comes back soon!
     
  13. ahcigar1

    ahcigar1 Happy Mother of 1

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    I have completely been not interested in any form of sex since getting pregnant.
     
  14. emzul

    emzul Mummy to Charlie Jack

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    Ha I am so glad its not just me, hear all these stories about women going sex-mad when they are pregnant...... who are these women? LOL

    Give me an early night for sleep any day!! x
     

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