Reno
Mama to 2 boys
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Anyone else have grandparents that want the other gender? ILs so desperately wanted a boy to 'carry on the name' with DS1, and now DS2 is on the way, MIL won't accept it and is remaining team yellow until the baby is born, in the hope that they got it wrong.
We are telling DS1 all about his baby brother and he is so excited, and after our last scan, MIL showed him the scan pic and said 'there's the baby, whatever it is'.
WHATEVER IT IS??? THAT'S YOUR GRANDCHILD!!!
It's rubbing off on DH a bit too, with his mum feeding him stories about how they get gender wrong (which I know it true, but very very rare and they often miss a penis not find a rogue one). He would have loved a girl too, but has come to terms with two boys now and even said he'd like 3 boys!!
There are issues with girls in the family as DH has a DD who he doesn't see at the minute (and no one else in his family have seen her for about 3 years - she's 5 now), thanks to a stubborn ex-wife and running out of savings to fight for her. Also, DH's sister has two older boys and had a surprise pregnancy which turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy 2 years ago, and it was a little girl. So there's only one other girl and she is an hour away via plane so MIL doesn't get to see her often.
I get that there are issues, but even if I have ten boys I don't want you putting a dampner on my beatuiful family and upsetting my husband. End rant.
We're getting another gender scan in a few weeks time after being told boy at 14 weeks, and if it's still a boy, great and if it's a girl, great. Either way, we're not telling anyone anything gender related with our next pregnancy as other peoples comments are too upsetting for a pregnant mama!
We are telling DS1 all about his baby brother and he is so excited, and after our last scan, MIL showed him the scan pic and said 'there's the baby, whatever it is'.
WHATEVER IT IS??? THAT'S YOUR GRANDCHILD!!!
It's rubbing off on DH a bit too, with his mum feeding him stories about how they get gender wrong (which I know it true, but very very rare and they often miss a penis not find a rogue one). He would have loved a girl too, but has come to terms with two boys now and even said he'd like 3 boys!!
There are issues with girls in the family as DH has a DD who he doesn't see at the minute (and no one else in his family have seen her for about 3 years - she's 5 now), thanks to a stubborn ex-wife and running out of savings to fight for her. Also, DH's sister has two older boys and had a surprise pregnancy which turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy 2 years ago, and it was a little girl. So there's only one other girl and she is an hour away via plane so MIL doesn't get to see her often.
I get that there are issues, but even if I have ten boys I don't want you putting a dampner on my beatuiful family and upsetting my husband. End rant.
We're getting another gender scan in a few weeks time after being told boy at 14 weeks, and if it's still a boy, great and if it's a girl, great. Either way, we're not telling anyone anything gender related with our next pregnancy as other peoples comments are too upsetting for a pregnant mama!