great blog article about those pesky HVs

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found this in baby club

https://thealphaparent.blogspot.com/2011/08/health-visitors-help-or-hindrance.html

even though I have personally had bad run ins with some of the not so good HVs; this article was still an eye opener for me xx
 
I just read that, it's very illuminating. I really really don't know why hv are allowed to comment on bf unless they have proper up to date training and/or experience.
 
Cheers - very helpful, and have taken the contact details to make a complaint to the midwife/nurse council about our HV's.

Warpath doesn't quite cover us down here at the minute...
 
An illuminating read, thanks! Think most of us on here recognise the things described, I for one was so naive in the beginning about the authority of health visitors.
 
Interesting article. Where I live, HVs only do the first after birth visit, and then their work is taken over by nursery nurses, who are generally not university graduates.

Some of the comments in the article are true for me especially the condescending attitudes and unsolicited advice.

My first and only encounter with my HV ended on this note "We offer the contraceptive implant and would be happy to come and insert it for you, after all, we don't want to be back here in 9 months". I let him get off with that comment even though it was highly offensive and unsolicited, but by that point, I was tired of the incessant post-birth visits etc.

Also, yes, they don't seem to take into account your individual capabilities as a parent and yes, they do give outdated advice. A good example is co-sleeping. "Mom should never sleep with baby" YET EVERY mother (in my area) leaves the hospital with a pamphlet actively encouraging co-sleeping to develop and sustain the breastfeeding relationship.

I am now no longer using the HV service, as I don't need LO weighed anymore.

Interesting article though. I do especially like the end where he says that there is a power imbalance between HVs and parents as parents don't seem to know their rights viz-a-vis Health visitors. x
 
My first and only encounter with my HV ended on this note "We offer the contraceptive implant and would be happy to come and insert it for you, after all, we don't want to be back here in 9 months".

I had this comment too, except from the GP's practice nurse and it was shouted at me down the corridor at the GP surgery :dohh:

Not good.

This whole topic makes me sad. Being a HV is what I really want to do, except I would do the job properly!!
 
My first and only encounter with my HV ended on this note "We offer the contraceptive implant and would be happy to come and insert it for you, after all, we don't want to be back here in 9 months".

I had this comment too, except from the GP's practice nurse and it was shouted at me down the corridor at the GP surgery :dohh:

Not good.

This whole topic makes me sad. Being a HV is what I really want to do, except I would do the job properly!!

Lol, thats even worse in public. How do they know I don't want to have many children in quick succession?

Don't worry, I am sure you will go and revolutionize the whole sector.
 
exactly!! I felt like being awkward and telling her just that!

haha I don't think I will be any kind of revolutionary but at least a few mums will not be told to wean at 2 months / top up with formula for no reason / leave their baby to CIO...
 
We dont have health visitors in the U.S. Never even heard of them
 

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