All through my pregnancy, ive been calm and excited and really looking 4ward to being a mummy, and I wasnt in the slightest bit worried about the labour... But... Now its getting closer to my date, im absolutely terrified, and the terror is just building the more I think about it. I know being a mum is something ill get used to, ive always wanted to be a mum, tho now im scared that ill resent not having any alone time with my OH or just to myself as me and my OH barely hav any time together nw. Im also now terrified of the labour, I cnt wait to meet my daughter, but theres a huge part of me now that wants her to stay where she is so that I dnt hav to go thru all the pain of labour, which is seriously selfish... But everytime I think about the labour, I feel sick to my stomach and I get this crippling feeling of dread. I know im going to have to do it very soon, but im just getting myself in a flap over it. Has anyone else felt like this? How can I snap out of it?