for our babys name we decided we liked the name bethany and had this from pretty much day one even before we knew what we were having.for a middle name we wanted a family name but one that went. we pick oh's great aunts name, Eva. everyone had said how they like it etc but my mother is going too far. she has told me that she loves the name Eva so much that shes not going to call the baby Bethany but Eva instead. ive tried explaining to her how this makes me feel and how would she like it if people called me katherine (my middle name) instead of elizabeth. so now shes saying we should call her Eva Bethany coz its so much nicer that way round.and shes even told her friends etc that baby will be called Eva. we dont agree with her and its really upsetting me. anyone got any ideas how to make her stop? its getting to the point im thinking of having no middle name even thogh its what i really want.