Grrr....

[Mishou]

Sorry its a quick vent...


I havent tested yet, but in my gut I feel that I am not pregnant. (There still is hope, so we shall see, I am not giving up yet ladies. ) But, by what I have posted on facebook people (family members) keep telling me that 'I'm pregnant' and keep joking about it. Its quite horrid, they know I want a baby bad....And then my fiances sister said I sounded like her when she was pregnant, but she was joking with saying that I was in the first place (everytime I talk to her she brings it up). Its really frustrating,

I am tired of hearing that 'OMG your pregnant' and not be or just the joking around about it, because it really isnt a joke. (I still cant believe they would do that to me, it just makes me truely sad, especially because they know I want a baby soooo badly )

 

[katiekittykat]

 

[Mishou]

Lets just hope I get my and prove that this isnt a joke....I really want this so hopefully they know how silly they were.

 

[Nat0619]

I'm sure they don't mean to upset you, I just think people don't understand unless they have been through trying to conceive themselves. This is so hard. I really hope this is your month

 

[Mishou]

Yeah I am pretty sure they didnt mean to, hopefully. (Everyone stopped after one post except my fiances sister). Thank you! I test on the 20th =) So hopefully I get a BFP then!

 

[Hays :)]

fingers crossed lovely im waiting for af to arrive, was feeling positive but im like you, i have that gutt feeling im not! xx

 

[Mishou]

Yeah, its just soo hard feeling positive especially at the end, I hope it turns you get your BFP good luck to you!

 

[ncmommy]

I hope you get your BFP!

 

[Mishou]

Aw thanks =),

 

[seoj]

Ah hun... they certainly aren't trying to make you feel bad. I'm sure they are just trying to stay positive because they love you and want this to happen for you... my bestie just told me the other day she has a feeling I'm prego right now! And it was a sweet moment for us- and even if she is wrong, it was still nice to hear. But with all that said- if it bothers you... then just tell them. I'm sure they have NO clue, and if they did- then they would cut back on it for sure!!! I do understand when your in that "place" that it's tough to hear such chipper words when your just not feeling it... I do understand.

You really never know, till you know, ya know? LOL. I'm certainly not trying to make light of your feelings... again, if that's something that nags at ya, then just be honest with them. You may not be able to say that to everyone- but at least your close friends and family

Sending you lots of baby dust and the best of luck!!!

 

[Mishou]

Oh your fine =), But that is true, I should feel more positive that it will happen because maybe whatever I post reminded me of them when they were pregnant and they possibly want it to happen for me as I do for myself. But, I do hope it happens this month. I been feeling really crappy lately so hopefully thats a good sign lol.

Thanks, to you as well!

 

[seoj]

Oh your fine =), But that is true, I should feel more positive that it will happen because maybe whatever I post reminded me of them when they were pregnant and they possibly want it to happen for me as I do for myself. But, I do hope it happens this month. I been feeling really crappy lately so hopefully thats a good sign lol.

Thanks, to you as well!

Well let's hope all those "annoying" pests are right!!! hehe. And it certainly can't hurt to keep a Positive attitude... if anything it helps us mentally! lol. And during the madness of TTC... we need all the help we can get! haha.

 

[Mishou]

True, true. =) Lets just hope, I will hopefully find out tomorrow.