Guess I'm out

[Bella3112]

Well I guess I'm out. Took a clear blue digital and the words "Not Pregnant" came up. Just sitting here crying quietly to myself. I'm so very very tired of this.

 

[OneSmallStep]

how many DPO? Last time I was pregnant it took until 16DPO to get a positive on ANYTHING.

 

[Bella3112]

I'm 13dpo but I can feel AF coming any second, getting stupid cramps. To top it all off DH is just not as affected by a negative as I am and I'm so frustrated and angry.

 

[OneSmallStep]

you know... One of my most clear signs of being pregnant is the AF-like cramps that have me running to the toilet every second to check my panties. And men just aren't as sensitive as we are... Mine's the strong silent type who cries alone and acts all tough when I'm around so I have a shoulder to cry on. I'm sure he's effected but he's trying to be strong for you. Chin up. It's all gonna be gravy in the end

 

[Bella3112]

I know he cares he just thinks of it more as we will just try harder next month which isnt a bad attitude to have but I'm just very impatient, I want my BFP now. I just figure with the digital test it has to be true

 

[AndreaFlorida]

Sweetie I am 18 dpo and did my blood test today results should be here tomorrow....after all those negative HPT's I don't TRUST them anymore half were positive and half were negative and I am this far out.....I don't see a sign of my AF anywhere in the forecast LOL....you should just keep your pretty chin up it'll happen soon I just know it I gotta feeling! God bless you and remember you could always be like me who NEVER tests positive on a POAS until like 8-9 weeks along! Don't stress yourself out it'll only cause troubles! Bless everyone baby dust and sticky glue to all! All my digitals were negative til like 8 weeks with my youngest son! Don't worry----be happy ....


Right now I've had some of the craziest cramps ever.....and just now getting sick sick...like nauseated! So it can still be just don't go crazy with POAS until that missed AF! It is a HUGE waste of money well at least in my case I've done over 20 of those stupid things now!

 

[Skadi]

I know the feeling, It's so disappointing and frustrating. :<

 

[Bella3112]

Thanks Andrea! I just never thought TTC would be this hard. My DH told me to take the digital test because it was the first time we ever used one and we werent really sure how they worked (time wise) and all. I guess I was really deep down hoping it would come up "Pregnant" and when I saw the NOT in front I was heart broken. I always have cramps a couple days before AF shows up so I just know shes gonna show her ugly face very soon. I really want to know what it is DH and I are missing, I mean I used OPKs, Preseed, Softcups, went by my EWCM and BD'd on the right days and we are just missing it lol. I just dont get it!!

 

[sardando]

Seeing those words on the CBD is horrible

Until AF arrives there is still hope, fx for you!