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[lauren1991]

Well ladies i know for sure im not pregnant

I have only just ovulated bowt 2-3 days ago and with my last pregnancy i knew straight away i was pregnant so im not even thinkning i might be now cz itll just be shattered the min i get that bfn,

on a plus note my partner is starting to seem to be more interested in this, when i mentioned more ovulation tests he said why not just get down to it like they did in the olden days..............

Its not quite that simple for some of us though is it?

Well my doctors surgery is changing over computer system just now so i cant even get an appointment until after the 4th!!!!!

I am going to the doctors to voice my concerns about how i think i cant get pregnant after my miscarriage so fingers crossed everything is okay with me!!!!

L xx

 

[patiently]

I hope things turn out well what makes you think you cant get pregnant...and if you're only 2 or 3dpo it could be too early to tell its not over till AF arrives...hope you get your bfp this month fingers x'd for you x

 

[lauren1991]

i dont know what it is...... i havent been off the pill for ages and nothings happend........

I dont feel like anythings different, i know im not id just be kiddin myself if i thought i was...

fingers are crossed for u 2.

Thanku!

L xxx

 

[petitpas]

Hm, I can generally feel a bfp coming but never as early as 3dpo! I'm not saying you should hold out hope forever but give it a few more days at least. How long has it been since your loss?

 

[lauren1991]

Hm, I can generally feel a bfp coming but never as early as 3dpo! I'm not saying you should hold out hope forever but give it a few more days at least. How long has it been since your loss?

I found out i was pregnant this time 3 years ago,

Having a miscarriage messed my body up and i have a niggly feeling i just cant get pregnant again

L xx

 

[wookie130]

Honey, have you been TTC for the past 3 years then, since your loss? If this is the case, DON'T HESITATE to see a fertility specialist. And if you have already done that, find another. There's no reason you should be relying solely on your instincts...that's far too discouraging. You should have some answers by now as to what's going on.

 

[petitpas]

Wow, that is a long time
Have you been to see your doctor to have your hormones checked? Do you know whether you are ovulating?

 

[lauren1991]

Honey, have you been TTC for the past 3 years then, since your loss? If this is the case, DON'T HESITATE to see a fertility specialist. And if you have already done that, find another. There's no reason you should be relying solely on your instincts...that's far too discouraging. You should have some answers by now as to what's going on.

i had been on and off the pill for a while but i was weioth my ex for quite some time and we didnt get pregnant, we seen the doctor and he said that Jonathan had a low sperm count..... hence no pregnancy.

Im now with the man i love and were wanting to try so i havent been on birth control for 6 months roughly and nothings happend,

This month is the first time i used clearblue digital o sticks and i nearly missed the big o, but i got a few smiley faces.

then i got alot of cramping so im guessing thats the o

L xx

 

[jennijunni]

So you were trying with a man previously with low sperm count, and are no longer with him, and the love of your life you have been trying with for 6 months?? Oh honey!! Dont get discouraged, I know you have been waiting for a long time, but low sperm count, is a killer, trust me I know. But now that you have found Mr. Right, give it a bit more time. I know this is going to sound awful, but 6 months is not that long. Give it a bit more time. You will get your BFP. And dont count yourself out yet. You would have no symptoms of pregnancy at 2-3dpo. I have been pregnant 7 times, and know my body very well, and I dont know if I am pregnant that soon after Oing. So give it a few more days!!! Dont get discouraged yet. And hugs to you!! I am sorry for your loss!! I hope you get your BFP really soon!!!

 

[lauren1991]

So you were trying with a man previously with low sperm count, and are no longer with him, and the love of your life you have been trying with for 6 months?? Oh honey!! Dont get discouraged, I know you have been waiting for a long time, but low sperm count, is a killer, trust me I know. But now that you have found Mr. Right, give it a bit more time. I know this is going to sound awful, but 6 months is not that long. Give it a bit more time. You will get your BFP. And dont count yourself out yet. You would have no symptoms of pregnancy at 2-3dpo. I have been pregnant 7 times, and know my body very well, and I dont know if I am pregnant that soon after Oing. So give it a few more days!!! Dont get discouraged yet. And hugs to you!! I am sorry for your loss!! I hope you get your BFP really soon!!!

thankyou, I could actually cry over it all, i dont get how some women could just look at a man and get pregnant while others are trying for ages.

Just wish i could get some good luck this year as its been a rough ride this year with my gran getting cancer at the start and dying in May.

Just think its about time someone threw some luck my way.

I hope u get a little sticky bean soon.

L xx

 

[chirizma]

dont give up yet hunny! at only 2-3dpo, the eggie wouldnt even have implanted yet.
and from reading your other posts on this thread, the previous man had low sperm count and the love of you life you've been trying 6 months. I agree 6 months in the TTC world isnt that long, even though to us it is. but in reality its only 6 tries. I think you have a good shot at it!!

a lil story for you..maybe it might give you some hope.. I had my first daughter at 18, I was on depo when I got preggy with her. Now after her birth, her father and I play very fast and lose with BC..as in, only when I felt O pains did we not do it, and it was never protected when we did. and after he birth and for the next 5 years I never ONCE got preggy by him again. and there were many months when we DTD up to O time. but not one additonal pregnancy. Then I got with my husband, and when we were TTC our first together, it took us 11 months to concieve. BUT since since we had that baby 5 years ago, I have had 2 children with him and just had a M/C, with what would have been our 4th together but my 5th total...all in a span of 6 years.

Now Im telling you this so you can see that, that what was one way with one man..is most diffinatly NOT the same with the next. Even if you have a slow time getting the baby with the second man. *hugz* hang in there sweety! Im sure you will get that mircle you want so bad. *hugz* and if you are really concerned about your fertility, there is no harm at all in talking to a Doc about it. Sometimes they can reassure you in ways no one else can

 

[lauren1991]

dont give up yet hunny! at only 2-3dpo, the eggie wouldnt even have implanted yet.
and from reading your other posts on this thread, the previous man had low sperm count and the love of you life you've been trying 6 months. I agree 6 months in the TTC world isnt that long, even though to us it is. but in reality its only 6 tries. I think you have a good shot at it!!

a lil story for you..maybe it might give you some hope.. I had my first daughter at 18, I was on depo when I got preggy with her. Now after her birth, her father and I play very fast and lose with BC..as in, only when I felt O pains did we not do it, and it was never protected when we did. and after he birth and for the next 5 years I never ONCE got preggy by him again. and there were many months when we DTD up to O time. but not one additonal pregnancy. Then I got with my husband, and when we were TTC our first together, it took us 11 months to concieve. BUT since since we had that baby 5 years ago, I have had 2 children with him and just had a M/C, with what would have been our 4th together but my 5th total...all in a span of 6 years.

Now Im telling you this so you can see that, that what was one way with one man..is most diffinatly NOT the same with the next. Even if you have a slow time getting the baby with the second man. *hugz* hang in there sweety! Im sure you will get that mircle you want so bad. *hugz* and if you are really concerned about your fertility, there is no harm at all in talking to a Doc about it. Sometimes they can reassure you in ways no one else can

I know but its hope shattering,

I just want some good news for once instead of bad if u know what i mean....

I cant get to my doctors till after the 4th because they are TOTALLY useless! scottish doctors

what does depo mean?

i got pregnant when i was 16 to my first love......

I then got with the man that had low sperm count after me and the ex split, never once got pregnant to him..... Violent relationship though so im glad about that.

Now im with Kevin and totally head over heels for him i want this to happen for us. 3 years ago in October i done a pregnancy test.....15 infact and got my little miracle but it didnt stick! i actually got pregnant on my mum and step dads honeymoon lol..... how bizarre.

Who knows maybe if i give up itll happen.

L xx

 

[chirizma]

dont give up yet hunny! at only 2-3dpo, the eggie wouldnt even have implanted yet.
and from reading your other posts on this thread, the previous man had low sperm count and the love of you life you've been trying 6 months. I agree 6 months in the TTC world isnt that long, even though to us it is. but in reality its only 6 tries. I think you have a good shot at it!!

a lil story for you..maybe it might give you some hope.. I had my first daughter at 18, I was on depo when I got preggy with her. Now after her birth, her father and I play very fast and lose with BC..as in, only when I felt O pains did we not do it, and it was never protected when we did. and after he birth and for the next 5 years I never ONCE got preggy by him again. and there were many months when we DTD up to O time. but not one additonal pregnancy. Then I got with my husband, and when we were TTC our first together, it took us 11 months to concieve. BUT since since we had that baby 5 years ago, I have had 2 children with him and just had a M/C, with what would have been our 4th together but my 5th total...all in a span of 6 years.

Now Im telling you this so you can see that, that what was one way with one man..is most diffinatly NOT the same with the next. Even if you have a slow time getting the baby with the second man. *hugz* hang in there sweety! Im sure you will get that mircle you want so bad. *hugz* and if you are really concerned about your fertility, there is no harm at all in talking to a Doc about it. Sometimes they can reassure you in ways no one else can

I know but its hope shattering,

I just want some good news for once instead of bad if u know what i mean....

I cant get to my doctors till after the 4th because they are TOTALLY useless! scottish doctors

what does depo mean?

i got pregnant when i was 16 to my first love......

I then got with the man that had low sperm count after me and the ex split, never once got pregnant to him..... Violent relationship though so im glad about that.

Now im with Kevin and totally head over heels for him i want this to happen for us. 3 years ago in October i done a pregnancy test.....15 infact and got my little miracle but it didnt stick! i actually got pregnant on my mum and step dads honeymoon lol..... how bizarre.

Who knows maybe if i give up itll happen.

L xx

awww hunny, *hugz* yea I know hope can be very shattering. But it can be uplifting as well Sometimes a hope and a dream is all we have until they come true and change to our reality

oooooooh that is SO sucky, you can't get into a doc until the 4th! grrrrrrr, Im mad for you!!!

Depo is Depo-Provera the birth control I was on for 2 years at the point I got Pregnant with my eldest.

You know I dont think you need to give up for it to happen. maybe just be to busy to notice. I know that sounds SO funny! But the month that my hubby and I got pregnant with our first (after trying for 11 months) was the one month we were to busy to pay any attention to when we were trying. Litterly, it was the month or our renewel cermony (we eloped to Vegas 6 months before) and we had all these people comming over and all this stuff to do. So we were just too busy to pay attention if it was the right time or not, and just had fun. and Ill be damed, but that is when I got pregnant

 

[petitpas]

I can't add much more to what chirizma is saying. I think that you are doing all the right things by taking charge of your cycle You know, until I temped and figured out I had a short luteal phase I had my fertile window wrong by 4 days
Keep at it, see your doc just in case, and hopefully you'll be up the duff very soon

 

[lauren1991]

I can't add much more to what chirizma is saying. I think that you are doing all the right things by taking charge of your cycle You know, until I temped and figured out I had a short luteal phase I had my fertile window wrong by 4 days
Keep at it, see your doc just in case, and hopefully you'll be up the duff very soon

Lol, love that phrase,

I dont even know what a luteal phase is lol

Im hopeless with days etc........very forgetfull. especially over the past few days....... cannot sleep at all.

L xx

 

[petitpas]

Urgh, it's not easy this ttc malarkey!
Your cycle is divided into two parts. You start (1st day of period is day one) with your follicular phase. This is when your ovary grows follicles with eggs in them. At some point an egg will be big enough and the follicle pops open to release it. This is ovulation and this is the moment you want to have a stash of semen already lurking up your tubes. Once the follicle has released the egg the luteal phase starts. In essence, it is what we on here refer to as the two week wait. The most common luteal phase is 14 days so if you work back from when you would expect af, that's when you might be ovulating. My luteal phase is typically around 10 days so I actually wasn't ovulating until four days after I initially thought I therefore totally missed my fertile window.
Nowadays opks work best for me. As soon as I get a positive I know I need to make sure we fit a session in pronto

Sorry, I hope I haven't overloaded you with jargon and my version of the science there...

 

[lauren1991]

Urgh, it's not easy this ttc malarkey!
Your cycle is divided into two parts. You start (1st day of period is day one) with your follicular phase. This is when your ovary grows follicles with eggs in them. At some point an egg will be big enough and the follicle pops open to release it. This is ovulation and this is the moment you want to have a stash of semen already lurking up your tubes. Once the follicle has released the egg the luteal phase starts. In essence, it is what we on here refer to as the two week wait. The most common luteal phase is 14 days so if you work back from when you would expect af, that's when you might be ovulating. My luteal phase is typically around 10 days so I actually wasn't ovulating until four days after I initially thought I therefore totally missed my fertile window.
Nowadays opks work best for me. As soon as I get a positive I know I need to make sure we fit a session in pronto

Sorry, I hope I haven't overloaded you with jargon and my version of the science there...

Lol not at all! very helpful!

Im going to keep proper track and go see the doctor and have a good proper bash at it this time.

As me and the ex just did it and hoped for the best didnt use any opk's or anything so thats what i have been doing now with kevin, just bought the 20 pack off of eBay....... fantastic price considering boots is double the price.

Ive not been able to sleep the past few nights.... up at 1,2,4 & 6

had the strangest dream last night, dreamt i had done 3 pregnancy tests and got 3 bfp's!!!!

woke up thinking i was pregnant!

went to bed last night with tender boobs woke up and it was gone but had a sort of butterfly feeling and a few spasms, now a little cramp!

i dont know whats wrong with me

L xx

 

[petitpas]

Aw, that's cute that you have preggo dreams. I can't really advise much on the sleeplessness. What works best for me are ear plugs as they stop some of the noise distractions that wake me up.

Ultimately, having fun with your partner is the most successful way of going about ttc.
Wishing you good luck xxx

 

[lauren1991]

Aw, that's cute that you have preggo dreams. I can't really advise much on the sleeplessness. What works best for me are ear plugs as they stop some of the noise distractions that wake me up.

Ultimately, having fun with your partner is the most successful way of going about ttc.
Wishing you good luck xxx

I know lol.

I felt so real!

Woke up with my hand on my belly.

Actually gutted it wasnt real.

The only thing about it was in the dream i was only 5dpo when i tested and got the bfp!

Proper strange!

L xx

 

[petitpas]

Well, maybe your body is trying to tell you something. Either you're pregnant and don't know it yet or your body is getting pregnancy ready. All good stuff