Has anyone else not had sex for ages??..

[tinnkx]

Sorry but just wondered, I feel sorry for my hubby but I also feel sorry for me too.. I wish I didn't feel so unattractive we havent slept together for months, other things have happened but I think during the entire pregnancy we've only slept together twice I'm scared if I'm honest x..

 

[Beccy23]

thats the same with me too and i was getting slightly paranoid about how cool dh is about it all i think we have dtd 3 times since march!!!

 

[Pielette]

I haven't for ages - mostly it was because during first tri I was too scared, then I was too tired. Now I really really want it but hubby can't get over the idea that bubs is right there!
I wouldn't worry, I know my husband was really understanding earlier on when it was me saying no, and I'm now understanding of him saying no. Normal service will resume in time

 

[Leopard]

I havent because I end up walking like im saddle sore for days and everytime we do it i feel like im losing my virginity all over again

 

[Emily louise]

we havent done anything since we concieved him because I didnt wana risk anythign at first and then I got a low placenta so said no sexual intercorse or fore play .. But then cause my placenta moved we did try something last week but It give me really bad pains in my tummy and back sometime later so Its a big no no now !x

 

[BoBo]

Erm... since conception!!

I have been too scared!! we had a loss last year (nothing to do with sex though) and I have just been so paranoid and now my DH is freaked out by the baby being there LOL. I also just haven't felt in the mood.

To be honest, we tried for so long to get pregnant that we are both just so greatful to be where we are now, so sex is the least important thing for us at the mo.

I'm sure I'll be worrying about exactly the same issue when baby arrives too, when we haven't had 5 mins to spend together alone! LOL

 

[Shortcake01]

Erm... since conception!!

I have been too scared!! we had a loss last year (nothing to do with sex though) and I have just been so paranoid and now my DH is freaked out by the baby being there LOL. I also just haven't felt in the mood.

To be honest, we tried for so long to get pregnant that we are both just so greatful to be where we are now, so sex is the least important thing for us at the mo.

I'm sure I'll be worrying about exactly the same issue when baby arrives too, when we haven't had 5 mins to spend together alone! LOL

We pretty much feel the same too, in terms of how long it took and that the baby is the most precious thing at the moment. We did it a few times in 2nd tri but I have pelvic girdle pain, DH worries about hurting me so mainly we just stick to other stuff on the occasional time Im in the mood! We have the rest of our lives to catch up, we're not worried xxx

 

[darsilver1]

I haven't had sex since early April...I have handled not having sex pretty well..It is not because I don't want to...I don't have anyone to do the deed with..broke things off with LO father in April...Now that I am nearing the end, I feel too uncomfortable to even think about sex...

 

[ahcigar1]

We've tried a few times but it just doesn't work at the moment. Belly gets in the way, I'm uncomfortable, totally awkward, and it just plain old hurts at the moment I guess cause I'm swollen down there or something.

 

[Lau88]

We've not since we conceived. Rather worried about eventually doing it now as oh is uhm rather large, and I feel like iv shrunk. If this isn't a natural birth with some stretching god knows how the first time after will work out.

 

[StarBoHo]

We haven't since about 13 weeks pregnant. My DH felt that my tummy had got harder the last time we did and it kind of freaked him out a little. He's scared stiff of hurting the baby. He's even changed the position he sleeps in at night to prevent hurting me or the baby. I think it's sweet but tbh...I'm gagging to dtd!

 

[Zodiac]

No sex for me in about 8 weeks, before that we've only had sex about 3 times since finding out I was pregnant. At first my hubby was worried, and since we found out I was pregnant early (same day AF was due) and everything was going so perfect he didn't want to chance something going wrong.

By the time he got over that, my belly started getting bigger so now it just freaks him out b/c he knows baby is there. We were about to get things going last week and while we were kissing the baby kicked so that just ruined the mood for sex.

I've been horny has hell and have taken matters into my own hands for now Hubby says that right now sex is the last thing on his mind.

 

[iluvcocopops]

We're the same, we'd be lucky if we do it once every 6wks, but I'm kinda at the point now were I can't be bothered - id rather just have a hug. We're also in separate beds, but thats just cos he snores really loud and im finding it hard enough to get to sleep. At least I could have a wee night cap prior to getting pregnant lol

 

[Beaney192]

We have only recently started having sex again at 38 weeks to see if it would help little man make an apperance, but before that we had only had sex twice in the pregnancy!

 

[Sini]

We had a fairly active sex life until about 6 weeks ago, Im just knackered all the time and I think OH is a bit scared to hurt the baby etc. Will definately give it a go ASAP. Im sure he misses it as much as I do.

 

[seoj]

Hubby and I haven't had sex since 28wks... BUT... we were cut off by my OB due to my placenta previa (as it's a risk we were told not to take). But before that, we would DTD least 1-2 times a week... so it was tough to have that intimacy taken away. Not the worst timing though- I was just starting to show well and it may have become a bit too awkward to DTD a lot anymore anyway... least that is what I tell myself. LOL. I do feel bad for hubby- as now, I'm just so not in the mood to do much of anything! Once the achy hips and back and sleepless nights kicked in... plus I just have so much on my mind to do before baby comes. For him, as he doesn't have all these distractions it's much harder... I should probably do something for the team soon as truly, he's been so amazing about it and doesn't really complain (even though I KNOW it's hard on him).

I certainly look forward to a normal sex life again!

 

[preggers amo]

i know.... ( its a bit depressing, feel like a cow and unattractive, plus lack of mobility is such a major factor, have thought about sex to bring kickstart labour at the end but i just cant imagine that happening!! how does that work! i cant position myself in any position to get comfortable, tried to a few weeks ago when i was 34 weeks it was too awkward, my bump kept getting in the way when i was on top,lol!! just ended up giving up and laughing!
but i miss it......another reason why pregnancy is just too long!!!

 

[jollygood000]

With my last pregnancy I was rampant, its literally all I thought about, I would harrass DH into doing at least 5-6 times a week which is way more than usual... this time round Im really swollen and find it really difficult to enjoy it so we have practically stopped... I cant wait for 6 weeks time x

 

[Milliemoo x]

We've done it twice since conception and both of us just felt really weird and ended up laughing lol! It bothers me a bit that we have easily managed without it but i cant wait til baby is here and we can DTD I miss my hubby xxx

 

[Catherine896]

We havent since I was about 16 weeks. I think at first I was too paranoid, as I had a loss that seemed to come on after sex a couple years ago, and other than that I havent felt like it atall. We havent kissed since atleast before 16 weeks either, all touchy feely stuff makes me feel horrible at the moment so Im interested to know if I will want it again after baby is born!

xx