Have you ever felt this way?..

[twpnsfs10]

You get a + OPK and are so excited to get to work..then something comes up and you aren't able to BD as much as you had wished?

I JUST RECENTLY got a grasp on my cycles and FF is finally making sense to me. This month I've only Bd's once near O time and it was the day of my + OPK (the day before ovulation).

Can't help but feel down, like I wasted the opportunity that I was presented with. Hopefully they're right when they say "it only takes one time" =)

 

[nicolololo]

Yes! my bf and I BD on the 13th, ovulated the 17 and then BD again the 18. Like seriously it makes me so upset that I didn't do it more. But I kept telling myself that swimmers live for 7 days inside the female body so that was positive thinking for me.

 

[twpnsfs10]

I've been saying little positive things like that as well! I guess I'm just nervous because I have a history of endometriosis and ovarian cysts so I feel like I should have maximized my chances when I had the chance. Thanks for the post love! Baby Dust!

 

[micsor]

I feel that way all the time, and then end up feeling really guilty about it! Every month just becomes more and more stressful!

 

[cdj1]

I feel that way every cycle!!! Good luck to you, you are still in with a chance! x

 

[MrsAttard]

I feel this way every month it seems. This month DH and I were on vacation during o-time, which I thought would be perfect. But due to various problems (busy, not feeling well, general tiredness) we didn't bd as much as I hoped and I gave up on this month right away. Plus, our window in harder to work with bc my DH has low sperm count so we have to wait at least a day or two between bd for it to be truly effective. It makes me wonder if we're actually having infertility issues or if we just aren't timing it well enough each month.

 

[twpnsfs10]

I understand what you mean. I tossed that concept around in my mind for the last year or more. One minute I'd cry and say "I think it's my fault (meaning my body), and the next minute I'd be justifying that maybe it's because I had no idea how my cycle worked. Now that I have a grip on charting and such and I am seeing myself ovulate, I'll be able to answer that question. Thanks for the post and baby dust to you and your husband!

 

[Gem09]

One time is all you need hun! My first pregnancy (unfortunatley ended in miscarriage) we BD on the wednesday i ovulated the friday and low n behold i was pregnant when i tested at 17dpo. Good Luck x