Hi guys & girls
So I have been wtt forever! However when me and my then boyfriend went to Jamaica for a week he PROPOSED!!!EEEKKK so happy. it was the perfect proposal.
I have always said I want a baby before I get married (for many reasons some off which probably aren't logical but heyho) but now I want to get married soon but I don't know that we can afford to do both, but I still want a baby before I get married. My now fiancé has said he want us to have a baby next year which is huge progress!
(back story fiancé in RAF currently been away for 12 weeks, 2 more weeks till he is back so I don't know if he is saying it to help his odds of having sex which he wouldn't need to because 14 weeks is long for me to and I defo need some )
I just don't want having a baby to put off our weddings for years because we have a baby.
In a nutshell I want to have my cake and eat it too (spoilt girl problems)
I don't really know what im asking but has anyone got any advice or been in this situation ?
Thanks
So I have been wtt forever! However when me and my then boyfriend went to Jamaica for a week he PROPOSED!!!EEEKKK so happy. it was the perfect proposal.
I have always said I want a baby before I get married (for many reasons some off which probably aren't logical but heyho) but now I want to get married soon but I don't know that we can afford to do both, but I still want a baby before I get married. My now fiancé has said he want us to have a baby next year which is huge progress!
(back story fiancé in RAF currently been away for 12 weeks, 2 more weeks till he is back so I don't know if he is saying it to help his odds of having sex which he wouldn't need to because 14 weeks is long for me to and I defo need some )
I just don't want having a baby to put off our weddings for years because we have a baby.
In a nutshell I want to have my cake and eat it too (spoilt girl problems)
I don't really know what im asking but has anyone got any advice or been in this situation ?
Thanks