I just got a new job, which I start on the 20th. I took the job before I knew I was pregnant. I'm a little nervous. :/ what do you ladies think I should do?
I've told 2 good friends at work who I know can keep a secret.. Want to wait till 12 weeks to tell everyone else.. Although if my tummy gets much bigger people gonna start guessing I reckon lol
I don't want to tell my boss as she has a bit of a rep that she can't keep a secret, however i need to tell her as i am a teacher and my 12 week scan won't be until the school holidays. I think i am going to have to tell her and express how important it is to me that she doesn't mention it to anyone else.
We told parents yesterday and it seems to have tsken a bit of the magic away which is weird but at only 5 weeks i feel like i have added on more pressure.
I am struggling with this coz I feel so tired, unmotivated and sickly (although this has subsided a bit). Also I have started eating every couple of hours because of feeling sick, and not drinking tea - I'm sure this is suspicious! Also I had two days off due to a threatened miscarriage and spendin most of the time in hospital, but didn't want to tell anyone as I was only 6 weeks, so have lied (well it was true that I was sick, but I didn't mention the miscarriage). now i don't know whether to tell them later on or what??!
I only told my boss, but in the past week 3 people have figured me out. They are keeping quiet about it though since I told them it's not "public" yet.
I'm an HR Director so I don't want rumors to start flying that I am using my "power" in my position to get by on things. So everyone else will just find out when I can't hide it anymore.
I've told 2 good friends at work who I know can keep a secret.. Want to wait till 12 weeks to tell everyone else.. Although if my tummy gets much bigger people gonna start guessing I reckon lol
I know exactly how you feel lol xx i just wanna wear stretchy comfy clothes..