He did it again! TMI!

Discussion in 'Waiting To Try' started by Beltane, Aug 27, 2009.

  1. Beltane

    Beltane Mother of 3 Boys!

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    My husband has verbalized to me that he wants to try for another baby when Tristen turns 1 -- in January. I am off the pill and he has ejaculated inside me a handful of times this month. I sat him down and reminded him how fertile I am and how quickly we got pregnant last time. I told him that if he didn't want a baby now that we should be more careful. So this morning, he blasts one off inside of me again! Does he not care? Is he being lazy? Does he secretly want to knock me up now? :shrug:

    I am not opposed to having another baby sooner than later so I have not stopped him. What is going on?? Does he already think I'm pregnant so it just doesn't matter? Your opinions welcome!
     
  2. saraendepity

    saraendepity Daisy's Mummy and TTC!

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    i think he secretly wants to put a bun in your oven earlier !!!!

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    sara

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  3. paula85

    paula85 very proud mammy to 3!

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    Well he knows the consiquences of doing it so he must want another now ;)
     
  4. Beltane

    Beltane Mother of 3 Boys!

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    The :witch: just arrived after I posted this so all bets are off! Ha! At least I know when the heck I am ovulating!
     
  5. sleepinbeauty

    sleepinbeauty WTT#1 after marriage

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    Sounds like he wants to get going sooner. Good luck!
     
  6. fuffyburra

    fuffyburra Hattie Flower's mummy :)

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    I agree with the others, on his own head be it! He knows the consequences, and it kinda sounds like he wants to start trying now :D Good luck this month!! xx
     
  7. amyclaire

    amyclaire TTC late July 2010 :D

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    ha, u know what im like about this situation! why are men so complicated! have to say i appreciate all these comments as well, great help for me as well :p xxx
     
  8. Blah11

    Blah11 ☼ Mummy to Amelie ☼

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    My OH does this too, it's so irritating. I don't mind risking the teeny tiny chance of the pulling out method has of getting preg, but don't want him 'offloading' up there :growlmad: I've told him time and time again I'm not ready for another LO yet, and said he'll have to use condoms if he does it again. He promises he won't but he does! Think they get carried away in the moment.
     
  9. Sophie1205

    Sophie1205 Mum to 1 and WTT

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    It does sound like he wants to try sooner then!! As someone said he knows the consequences... Good luck! x
     
  10. PnutProtector

    PnutProtector Well-Known Member

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    i'm with everyone else. He secretly wants to try sooner, but doesn't want to say so because it'll make him seem like a broody woman. lol
     
  11. nkbapbt

    nkbapbt Double Preemie Momma

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    Oh he is so looking to knock you up early!
    Hey if you are ready...and he is interested...shoot away!!
     
  12. bunnyg82

    bunnyg82 Mum to 2 gorgeous boys

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    :rofl: This really made me giggle!!!

    Men are just confusing sometimes! But he knows the consequences so I'd just go with it, unless you are not ready and then you might need to be a bit more forceful!
     
  13. Beltane

    Beltane Mother of 3 Boys!

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    I sat him down last night and told him he was really sending me mixed messages. He apologized and said he was really lost in the moment when it happened but that if we did concieve, he would be thrilled. Now to decide when!
     
  14. MsLesley

    MsLesley Well-Known Member

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    it sounds like he wants it to happen but maybe go undiscussed to make it that much more exciting and less pressure...does that make sense? I of course dont know for sure but i know many guys feel that way.
     
  15. xCorkettex

    xCorkettex Mum to 1 x

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    Why don't guys admit it when they want another????my hubbys the same.
     
  16. impatient1

    impatient1 Mommy to 1 Angel & 2 DD

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    I'd say he secretly wants to have another baby sooner.
     
  17. bumpsmum

    bumpsmum Mummy to Matthew & Daniel

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    I can sympathise we :sex: 3 times over weekend without protection, neither of us have passed comment on it, kind of a wait and see what happens, I secretly want to get preg now anytime I joke about it I get a face - although I know he'd be over the moon if I did - MEN EH COMPLACATED CREATURES! x
     
  18. princess_bump

    princess_bump Happy Wife & Mumma!

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    yep def sounds like he wants one now honey :hugs: xx
     

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