My OH doesnt understand the importance of regular at my fertile time. He seems to just want to leave things to happen "naturally". I have explained about my fertile time and that we should try to do it at least every other day but he says he just cant turn "it" on like that. I read on here about people doing it every other day etc and it makes me cross coz i just cant get my oh to commit to this. He says he is tired (he is 47 but still), has indigestion etc and we usually only manage once at my fertile time. At this rate its going to take me years to conceive (and i dont have that long left - i am 38) i have tried explaining to him about our reduced chances coz of my age and that we must try to do it regularly but he says I make him feel like a machine and he isnt happy at all at having to do it on demand like that. I have tried not telling him about it being my fertile time, but if he isnt in the mood, i end up telling him anyway which he says puts more pressure on and i still dont get my If i said to him that we had to do it every night for about 5 nights, he would have a heart attack and to be honest, i really dont think he would be able to do it physically anyway. We only bd about twice a week normally. it gets me down .... does anyone else have this problem.