Ugh need a rant. It's my own fault, every other week or so I sneakily check out the website my ex FOB visits for um, I dunno, stupid reasons, maybe I'll catch him out saying something or I can see if he is miserable without me or not (which would be great) but today I just wanted to scream. He posted an innocent enough post and I agree totally with what he said in it. He came across some kids kicking about a pheasant in a field and he went ballistic and reported them to the RSPCA, demanded to see their parents and scolded them. He then gets tons of responses from all his male mates saying how absolutely wonderful he is, how we need people in society like him, how there should be more people in this world with integrity and kindness as him, he has a big heart, a good soul, he did the right thing yada, yada. I felt like saying 'yeah he is so effing amazing he has done one of the scummiest things a man can do and leave his pregnant girlfriend solely because she is pregnant and then disappear and ignore her. It makes me so mad how he behaves like this which is morally correct and (I hate cruelty to animals so he did do the right thing) and can't even bloody be there and 'do the right thing' for his own child and these other men think he's wonderful WTF??? I think this is one of the things that annoys me the most about it all. How it's like I don't exist, the baby doesn't exist and everyone thinks he's a wonderful human being when HE IS NOT!!! aaaaghh rant over. Nice cup of tea now as I can't have a gin and tonic and I must stop looking at that webpage as even nice stories annoy me. p.s for some obscure reason, every other post he is popping in the words 'breast feeding' e.g. 'cut my nipple as I was chopping food and the knife slipped, guess I can't breast feed now LOL and about the kids he told off 'guess they weren't breast fed properly'............what a weirdo!