im in the first trimester, 8 weeks on monday. tonight my husband and i rearranged and did a through cleaning in our bedroom. i did move a few things, like a dresser etc but he did most of the grunt work. Now im a very self-sufficiant person, and i hate having people do things for me. so is this going to harm me or my baby since im so early on in my pregnancy? i just dont want to do anything that could cause me to lose my jelly bean, and i didnt really think about it until afterwards. i know, stupid. but i really dont want to wait on people to help me do things...any one out there the same way? did you do any heavy lifting on your own and did things go alright?