Hello all Just to say hello all. I am 13 weeks and 2 days pregnant, woo hoo. We have a roller-coaster ride with this pregnancy, with recurrent bleeding from polyps and two previous miscarriages. We just had our 13 weeks scan starting to get very excited and for the first time the baby to seems real. You long did it take for you to feel that the baby is real? This will be the 4th baby for me but the first of my other half, I am looking forward to finding out the sex, but he doesnt want to know till the baby is born, does anybody think I should talk him around or let him get his own way?