Hello, suddenly desperate for a baby!

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  1. Aveta

    Aveta Well-Known Member

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    Hi everyone, I can't even believe I'm on this forum but I really need help! A few months ago we got married and now I can't get the thought of getting pregnant out of my head. We had big plans to travel the world in a few years and even though that would be fun I just don't feel the desire anymore! My head and heart have been disagreeing for a few months but now my head has started to agree with my heart....ah!

    My DH is not ready, and I know this. We are hardly settled in to our new life, but once he's in a permanent job I can see no reason not to (well, there are a lot of reasons but none of them seem to matter to me anymore).

    He says a few years at the least. My head and heart are torn, my body is crying out for a baby! I am in my early 20's and I know it's probably due to my body being "ready", but I also feel it in my head. I was a nanny for a year and had such a great time with the kids. There will never be the perfect time, I just want to do it now while we are full of energy and enthusiasm about our lives.

    I'd ask someone how to make the feeling go away, but I don't really want it to! I can't convince my DH yet, and I have a copper coil....but part of me hopes an accident happens.

    Ah, I'm so confused. :crib::baby::baby::baby: :dohh::cry:
     
  2. polo_princess

    polo_princess ♥ Brookes Mummy ♥

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    Helloooo & Welcome!!
     
  3. hotsexymum

    hotsexymum mum of 4

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  4. Charlotte-j

    Charlotte-j Mum of 2.

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    welcome to baby and bump :)
    :hugs:
     
  5. lynz

    lynz mum of 2 princesses

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    :hi: welcome to baby and bump
     
  6. NickyT75

    NickyT75 RIP Sophie my angel

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    Hiya hun & welcome from the BAW club girlies :D xx
     
  7. Suz

    Suz ~ I are a Nerd ~

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    :hi: Welcome to BnB!!! :headspin:
     
  8. doctordeesmrs

    doctordeesmrs Mummy to 2 boys TTC #3

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  9. Jemma_x

    Jemma_x Mummy and Engaged

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    :hi: welcome to bnb
     
  10. leeanne

    leeanne Mom of 3 and Stepmom of 2

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    Welcome to BnB! :)
     
  11. Someday74

    Someday74 Well-Known Member

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    :hi: I honestly don't think there is a "good time to have a baby" - you just know!! Best of luck to you on your TTC journey :flower:
     
  12. cazd

    cazd Guest

    hiya + welcome!

    I think most of us WTT girls would love a BFA - Big Fat Accident!
     
  13. bambikate

    bambikate Mummy of 2 gorgeous girls

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    welcome to BnB x x
     

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