Hello, suddenly desperate for a baby!

[Aveta]

Hi everyone, I can't even believe I'm on this forum but I really need help! A few months ago we got married and now I can't get the thought of getting pregnant out of my head. We had big plans to travel the world in a few years and even though that would be fun I just don't feel the desire anymore! My head and heart have been disagreeing for a few months but now my head has started to agree with my heart....ah!

My DH is not ready, and I know this. We are hardly settled in to our new life, but once he's in a permanent job I can see no reason not to (well, there are a lot of reasons but none of them seem to matter to me anymore).

He says a few years at the least. My head and heart are torn, my body is crying out for a baby! I am in my early 20's and I know it's probably due to my body being "ready", but I also feel it in my head. I was a nanny for a year and had such a great time with the kids. There will never be the perfect time, I just want to do it now while we are full of energy and enthusiasm about our lives.

I'd ask someone how to make the feeling go away, but I don't really want it to! I can't convince my DH yet, and I have a copper coil....but part of me hopes an accident happens.

Ah, I'm so confused.

 

[polo_princess]

Helloooo & Welcome!!

 

[hotsexymum]

welcome

 

[Charlotte-j]

welcome to baby and bump

 

[lynz]

welcome to baby and bump

 

[NickyT75]

Hiya hun & welcome from the BAW club girlies xx

 

[Suz]

Welcome to BnB!!!

 

[doctordeesmrs]

Welcome

 

[Jemma_x]

welcome to bnb

 

[leeanne]

Welcome to BnB!

 

[Someday74]

I honestly don't think there is a "good time to have a baby" - you just know!! Best of luck to you on your TTC journey

 

[cazd]

hiya + welcome!

I think most of us WTT girls would love a BFA - Big Fat Accident!

 

[bambikate]

welcome to BnB x x