Help needed

[Benandjerrys]

Hi all ,I'm sorry if I'm in the wrong place but I need advice ,help ,something

12 years ago I gave birth to my beautiful son and was desperate to have another ASAP

11 years later I've had 4 ectopics and 5 miscarries ,I've had one tube removed and had the horrid Methotrexate for the other ectopics ...with my last ectopic they wanted to remove my other tube but I refused and begged for the injection with still being in the time frame for it ....the last one was 3 yrs ago and nothing has happened since .....and now I don't know what to do or try ....do I take all this has a sign and give up ? Sometimes I think that maybe my other tube has just broken up and disappeared can that even happen ?? I'm too scared now to go see my docs in case they tell me what I fear ..

 

[Cattia]

Hi, I don't really have any advice but I just wanted to say I am sorry for what you've been through. I think you ought to go to the Dr. It's better to know the facts and get any help that's available, it will maximise your chances. It may be nothing to do with your tubes but rather that you aren't ovulating regularly or something like that which can be treatable. Best of luck! X

 

[Faithopelove]

I agree, if you have questions or concerns, call your doctor. From my experience, if I don't know the facts my mind makes up all kinds of stuff and I'll worry and stress myself to death about those things. Even if the news isn't what you want to hear, it still might be better than not knowing. You have my thoughts and prayers!