Help Please

[Breenah]

Hi Ladies,

Im abit lost on what to think or where to find some answers. Im 28 years old and me & my husband have been trying to 2/3 weeks. I have been dying to become a mother for years and only recently we have tried, there's so many things wrong with me that my doctors don't even know where to start but I am in real need of some help. So I have bullet pointed everything to make it easier:

- Im 28 years old
- My Periods are soooo Irregular. My periods started like this: 11years old (1 year) then stopped till I was 21years old (which I started getting them every 3 months as I stopped the injections) and then it stopped again when I was 22years old and haven't had it since Jan 2013.
- Everytime I seek assistance from my doctors they tell me its my weight even when I lost it 20KGs to prove them wrong
- Im scared to take a pregnancy test because of all the high hopes Ive got with badly wanting to become a mum
- Lately Ive been feeling abit weird since trying with my hubby, in fact on the 2nd week of trying I started feeling the following:
- Sore lower right back pain
- Feeling nauseas (but at random times)
- Pinchy pains on my lower tummy
- Bloating
- Sensitive breasts (every now and then)
- Very mild headaches
- Had green Poo for 3/4 days (no veges eaten etc)

Can anyone help with some sort of reassurance? In need of help please

 

[spiritbear]

Hi Breenah!

So you haven't had a period since last year? That is the first place to start. I'd take a pregnancy test just to check and if it is negative you'll need to go back to the doctor to find away to get your periods starting again. You can't get pregnant unless you are ovulating and if you aren't getting your period at all, then you aren't ovulating :-/

The symptoms you are feeling could be early pregnancy symptoms, or they could be from other hormones as well. Good luck!!

 

[Breenah]

Thank you for your response. I will be taking a home pregnancy test first and then a Blood one to confirm....however will definitely look into why my periods are not regular....Thank you again for responding