Ok, so me and my boyfriend found out we were pregnant at the end of June 2016. Everything was progressing great. I knew we weren't supposed to say anything to anyone until the first trimester was over, but we couldn't help it... WE TOLD EVERYONE!!...
Well, on August 28th, I went in for what would have been a checkup at 12w2d and they couldn't find a heartbeat!. Said it stopped growing at 11w1d. I cried so hard.... for days... maybe even weeks. Long story short, I needed an emergency D&C and a blood transfusion on Sept 11th. (As if that day isn't hard enough!) 2 weeks after, we began to have "protected sex" (pull out method) and then we both decided to go ahead and try again and began unprotected sex on Oct 13th.
This is where I need some help: I'm not sure if I'm wanting to be pregnant so bad that I'm "psyching" myself out, or if I'm actually having preggers signs. I'm so very tired, I've gotten pretty nauseous a few times in the last 6 weeks. Mild cramping, and mild lower back aches. I did get what I thought was my period, but it only lasted 3 days. I've taken about 6 HPT that all give me negative results. I even went to the doctor 6 days ago and when I asked for a blood test for pregnancy, he shrugged me off with the answer of "our urine test doesn't indicate a preganancy!"... I was so mad. I was just wondering if anyone else has gone through this? Am I just going crazy wanting to be pregnant so bad?? Or could I actually be pregnant?
Well, on August 28th, I went in for what would have been a checkup at 12w2d and they couldn't find a heartbeat!. Said it stopped growing at 11w1d. I cried so hard.... for days... maybe even weeks. Long story short, I needed an emergency D&C and a blood transfusion on Sept 11th. (As if that day isn't hard enough!) 2 weeks after, we began to have "protected sex" (pull out method) and then we both decided to go ahead and try again and began unprotected sex on Oct 13th.
This is where I need some help: I'm not sure if I'm wanting to be pregnant so bad that I'm "psyching" myself out, or if I'm actually having preggers signs. I'm so very tired, I've gotten pretty nauseous a few times in the last 6 weeks. Mild cramping, and mild lower back aches. I did get what I thought was my period, but it only lasted 3 days. I've taken about 6 HPT that all give me negative results. I even went to the doctor 6 days ago and when I asked for a blood test for pregnancy, he shrugged me off with the answer of "our urine test doesn't indicate a preganancy!"... I was so mad. I was just wondering if anyone else has gone through this? Am I just going crazy wanting to be pregnant so bad?? Or could I actually be pregnant?