Ok, I keep seeing threads about things people have bought or lists of things they are getting very soon.... I have NO list, have bought NOTHING and dont intend to untill little man is totally viable ( I hate that word) which IMO will be at 30ish weeks... so I have another 9 weeks left. Am I alone in doing it this way? I just can't face the empty arms syndrome again Am I being too cautious or should I relax and start shopping? I feel like a right misery!