Help!!!!!

[lizzypie]

Hey everyone hope all is well xxx
Im going nuts here!!!! We have just started ttc and OH already thinks Im crazy!! Its all i can talk about. Tonight, after trying for a week I even wan to do a test(i know thats crazy but can someone tell me its ok to do oone anyway!????? )I think it far too early for any result but i cant help myself!!!

I just feel that were at thye beginning of this journey and he should want to share every thought and action with me, but he doesnt! Am i a mad woman? Hes really lovely but i guess he just wants to do 'his job' and not deal with my obsesive chatter about tests, legs up, ovulation, how long before we worry, names, telling people when we finally are etc etc.

Plus, hes drinking a couple of beers tonight. Theres really nothing wrong with that but i freaked out "i thought you werent going to drink anymore, this is serious you know" blah blah. Poor guys had a hard week and just wants to chill.

I jusr realised this turned into a moan about my prtner more than anything else!!!!!! We love each other deqarly really lol its just that im crazy

 

[lisaf]

Lol... you're not alone.. and its usually best to let out all that crazy TTC energy here rather than burden OH with it!!!
I know mine couldn't stand for me to say the word 'mucus' when I tried to explain stuff to him (cervical mucus).. incidentally, the word fluid seemed to be acceptable...

He wasn't against being invovled, but he kept telling me to chill out when I shared my obsession with him, lol.

It IS too early to poas (pee on a stick) yet... and this is coming from a poas addict here! Lol
You can't test until you are no more than 6 days before your period and even then its extremely rare to get one that early... 4 days before your period is slightly better chance... 2 days before or 1 day before are good chances to get a real positive.

I bought my tests online for like $1 each so I could test whenever I wanted and not feel guilty about wasting money...

 

[Janesworld]

Welcome to the world of TTC

 

[Born2BeAMommy]

It's really hard not to obsess! I have BFF that's trying to conceive as well so if I don't rant and rave and obsess on here (which i do) i call her and we blab to each other....to save the hubby's sanity! lol....though bless his heart he is really quite good at talking about it as well!! Fx'd for BFPs so we can join LisaF on the other side...lol