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[Jucakey]

Hi everyone,

Im new but i really need some advice and help??

So im currently 6 weeks and 5 days pregnant and 27 years of age, ive had a bit of trouble with pains and have had to have an early scan but everything is fine - Me and my partner have been tryng for a baby for about a year i finally fell pregnant but now im really having second thought about it, i feel like im trapped and i really feel like ive made the wrong choice but can do nothing about it, im questioning me and my partner even though there are no problems - Im so worried about telling my family as i know they are going to be dissapointed in me as esp my nan as she is not a big fan of my partner, im 27 but feel about 12, i just want this to go away, im all cried out. My partner cant under stand why im not happy and that is causing us to argue, i just cant shift this mood I have suffered a lot from depression in the past so im not suprised im like this

I went to the doctors yesterday and he is going to refer me to a depression nurse who specialises in pregnancy, i told him everything about the way im feeling and he wants to sign me off work but i dont think that will help.

Sorry to ramble on but i feel really stuck, i want to be happy xxx

 

[MrsBrooks]

I'm sorry your feeling down hunni, if you want to chat abit more PM me. Hopefully the nurse will be able to help x

 

[kat2504]

It may be that it is just your hormones. Mood swings are really common in early pregnancy as your hormones are rocketing. Also I think everyone worries about becoming a parent for the first time no matter how much the baby was wanted. Even people who try for years can get the "what have I done??!!" feeling.

I hope the nurse can help. Antenatal depression is a common problem that not many people are aware of.

 

[bumpin2012]

Honey, I felt the same way...I could have sworn that I was 16 telling my parents that I accidentally got myself pregnant. As it was, My mom told my grandma for me (and im also 27 years old, and hiding behind my mommy)

My relationship situation may be different, but if you are happy, MOST of the time, the parents are happy too.

Besides, your gonna have to tell them eventually...lol...it isn't something you can hide for long. My advice, get it over with and let the chips fall where they may. Stressing about how they might react is more than you and baby needs.

as the above poster said, everyone freaks about becomming a parent for the first time, your not alone hun, Good luck!

 

[AFwife77]

Thinking of you!

 

[emmaandbaby1]

I felt awful too, i have suffered depression too so not sure if its linked but my mum and dad tried to be happy but later admitted that this isnt the way they wanted me to do things... i am 22 and engaged. If you want to chat honey pm me xxx

 

[Jucakey]

Thanks, do feel terrible for feeling this way, hopefully Monday will help

Good luck xxxxxx