I am 23 my DH is 44. We have been together for 5 years just got married this past may. When we first got together we were ntnp. Well after 2 years of nothing I called a gyno. All he told me was I am young and since my DH has 2 kids his youngest is 15, we should just relax and try for another year. So we did. I figured you know what if its meant to happen it will so we just went about our lives. Well here I am, I am now getting serious about trying. I have started taking prenatals & wild yam root and ive always taken vit. C. My DH is taking vit.E, zinc and vit C. I have always had irregular periods I can be any where from 1 week early to 2 weeks late. Well last month for the first time I actually skipped AF. 3 weeks late BFN she finally came last thursday. So I am going to start using opks to make sure I am ovulating. We did an at home sperm test it just tells you if you have 20million or more per ml and his was positive. I know he can still have low mobility but hoping vitamins work. We dont have insurance but if after a few cycles of tracking still nothing I will call and see how much testing will cost. I try to stay really positive. In the time weve been ttc 2 nephews, 1 neice, 2 sisters have had a baby 1 has 2 and just recently our 16 yr old neice found out shes pregnant and. 15 year old cousin found out she is( she got pregnant when she was 13 and has MC) We only get to spend time with 2 nephews since they are closest and I cherish every minute with them. But it hurts sometimes to see everyone around me with something that I have been praying for for so long. Well hopefully this is my year I am not giving up anytime soon. I will pray for everyone on here for BFP and I am looking forward to the support.